I'd like to know exactly what's going on in the head of a beautiful, sexually viable woman when she is approached out of the blue during the day by a sexually viable guy she does not know who says something to make her smile and then starts innocently touching her forearm, etc and asking questions about where she is from, etc.
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This guy likes. * My looks and I'm flattered * My looks and I think he's shallow for it * My energy * Everyone and everything
This guy wants. * To have sex with me because of how I look * To see if he likes my personality and whether we have a connection and if so have sex with me * To become friends, with no concern either way about sex * To just have a conversation
because. * He's horny * He's just being a guy * He's just friendly * He thinks I'm beautiful * He can sense a connection between us even though all he knows is what he can tell by looking at me for a few seconds * He is just a people person
I want. * To have sex with him * To know more about him just out of curiosity * To find out if I want to have sex with him * Him to make me laugh * Him to understand me, make me feel safe, etc * Him to go away * Him to pass my manliness tests
Update: I realized that what a woman thinks will change quickly as the interaction progresses. I'm mostly curious about her initial thoughts as soon as she realizes that an unknown man has approached her without needing directions or the time or whatever.
4 months ago
When a guy approaches me out of the blue, my thoughts about him depend on the vibes he gives me. Assuming I would perceive you as a gentleman, I would be thinking these:
This guy likes my looks and my energy, and I'm flattered. Hopefully this guy wants to develop a relationship me rather than have sex with me because of my looks. He is a friendly guy who thinks I am beautiful, and he can sense a connection between us. I want to know more about him just out of curiosity. If we end up having a relationship, I want him to understand me, make me feel safe, and pass my manliness tests.
If I felt you were sketchy or immature, my thought pattern might be somewhat like this:
This guy likes my looks and I'm flattered for it, but he only wants sex from me. He is doing this because he is just being a guy. I want him to either mature quickly or go away.
all guys want sex so that's what I think. I just think he is attracted to me and may want to hook up/girlfriend/meet a new person.
It doesn't really bother me, unless I can tell he is cocky then I put him in the scumbag-onlywantssex category. I will tell those kind of guys that I have a boyfriend or I will act kind of standoffish.
I am flattered either way because it's like telling me that I'm cute. I would just want to get to know more about the guy and see what he's about if he's worthy
If a guy sees a pretty girl he will want to have sex with her. I have never met a guy for whom this is not true. - 4 months ago
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Well that's kind of f***ed up..and don't tell the women ur trying to get with that - 4 months ago
Question Asker
There's nothing f***ed up about it. It's an involuntary reaction built into our genes for the survival of our offspring. If we could choose to turn it off, believe me, we would. But we can't, so there's no point in getting upset about it. Women have the same involuntary reaction to confident, charming men. If you choose to see the former involuntary reaction as vicious and the later as virtuous, that's your choice to make, but it won't change anything. - 4 months ago
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