Ok ladies when your at a club or dancehall and a guy comes up to you and says hey you want to dance,and the guy takes your hand and you go to the dance floor to dance. Your on the dance floor dancing with the guy, and he asks you typical questions what's your name where you from and all that. So then the song ends and you say hey thanks for dancing I have to get back to my friends and then you leave.
Ok I can get girls fairly easily, but the problem in a club that I have encountered was this, when I was dancing with a girl and getting real close to her, what is that you want a guy to say to you? Do you want him to compliment your looks, how you smell good, do you want him to say something sexy? I just can't figure out what women would want to hear from a guy that makes them feel sexy but at the same time trying not to say anything to implying that he wants to have sex with you.
Here's my example: I was at a club and this girl smoking hot girl came up and goes hey I know you, and I said really I know you to and then I asked her if she wanted to dance, and she said yes, and then I said do you really know me or have you seen me before, and she goes no I just wanted to talk to you. So I was like oh ok.
So we start to dance and she had this red drink in her hand and I said hey you know that if you spill that on me then you have to buy me dinner? Her responce was dinner is already over, and I said well then its on for next weekend, and she said as long as your buying.
Ok so I got her intrested and then I blew it with her, I said what are you doing after this do you want to go back to my place, and once I said that she goes I am not that kind of girl and then once the dance was over she said I have to go find my friends.
So ladies what do you want to hear from a guy to make you intrested in him, if he's looking into you eyes and your connecting do you want him to kiss you? If your grinding up against him do you want him to push your hair off your neck and kiss your neck, or what cause I am kind of lost at this.
Well I can say, don't ever ask a non-drunk girl to go back to your place, but the thing about next weekend ain't bad. but when ever the dance is over ask them to dance another song then talk to them and give them your number or ask them for theirs. good luck
i didn't even read you whole question cause I already knew my answer. you should introduce yourself before you aks her to dance. hi my name is ____ wanna hit up the d floor? lol second you shouldn't focus about asking questions on the d floor, usually its too loud and there are too many people. after a few dances sit with her, then ask questions. not to many don't want to look like a stalker or someone who's gonna steal her identity lol. after a while of talking get back on the dance floor. if she still wants to hang around you after that, hang out with here and at the end of the night. I repeat at the END OF THE NIGHT get her digits. when you ask a girl for her number while she's still in the bar makes you look like a player just trying to getting numbers. one last thing. don't buy her a drink unless your really digin' her. working in a bar, I see so many guys buy drinks for girls and it gets them no where. actually sets them back
(Age:25 to 29)
When: 2 months ago
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