WTF is he doing to me?

Well if you already have some kind of relationship you can just ask him. But I don't think he is really into you. But again maybe he thought you didn't like him because you didn't pick up calls or something. Who knows. On a side note I wish I would get as much attention from girls as that guy. BTW from your description he seems like a playa so I wouldn't be surprised if he already had several girls before you or maybe still does. But yeah just ask him

I understand that you're busy, but it doesn't hurt to pick up AT LEAST one call and say "Hey, I'm busy, can I give you a call back later?", or if you miss his calls to call him back, not text him. I have had a girl (who I was really into) do that to me and got back to me the next week. For me it's a MAJOR red flag.

Some girls( not you in this situation) will do the exact same thing you did but instead of being realy busy they will just be leading a guy on. Because of that he may be trying to show you that he will stand up for himself when girls do this to him. You had a real excuse but other girls do this lets torment a guy thing so its hard to tell the difference.

Hey Anonymous,

He might have felt a little hurt or embarrassed that the two of you did not hook up. You did the right thing, by the way, because you are not an easy girl and you shouldn't be, by any means.

He's either a wounded animal and trying to regroup OR he is playing hard to get because he figured that you're not an easy girl and he is trying to turn the tables on you. It's working, because if it didn't, you wouldn't have written to us. A third scenario is that you are not an easy girl and he's not willing to go that extra mile for you. This will be easily spotted by him ignoring you for an extended period of time.

Don't know if you and I can stay in contact so that I can help you out as this situation progresses (I'm no expert, mind you), but you need to find out which one of the three scenarios is going on. If he likes you and you like him, stay in touch and magic will ensue if the chemistry is right. Tell him that you are not easy (or conservative, whatever you feel like using), but that you like him. Whatever happens, your integrity should not be compromised by hooking up if you are not comfortable. Remember, always look at things on the bright side, relax and smile.

you can't unless he explain what he really feel towards you , why you didn't return his calls its one of th reasons he's acting like this , plus maybe he don't want to do something to you because he thinks that you're not comfortable with it , you need to talk to him and see how he feel .