Okay, so I liked this guy in high school but I never did anything because I thought he was too young, I thought he was two years younger. I only had him in PE for two years and then after that, I didn't really see him during my Junior or senior year, so I got over him. Well it's my second year of College and he ends up being in one of my classes. Turns out it's his first year in college and some of those old feelings are coming back. I don't know if he's interested since I just started talking to him. But what's a good way to start flirting with a guy or showing hints that you're interested without being so blatant or desperate?
Ok I'm going to be direct. And remember this for the rest of your life cause it is going to help you. Guys don't think its desperate we don't mind the blatantness. We love let me repeat we loooooove! When girls approach us, flirt,or tell us they like us. I don't know why so many girls think this might be a turn off. They are wrong its a total turn on. Don't listen to Dr Laura don't listen to dr Joy Brown on this. Listen to Dr kevin. Lol that's me by the way. And even when guys arnt interested in the girl the girl asking us out can be such a turn on that it can change the guys mind! Let me repeat it can be enough of a turn on to see a confident or even not so confident women tell a guy she likes him or even say can you help me study in a sweet little voice. That if he didn't like you before he may actualy consider it afterwords. And at worse he will be flatterd.o and call him by his first name guys love that cause it shows you care about him if his name is John say John how is the class going for you. John would you like to study togeather. And you know what's awsume the guy totaly knows how hard it is for you to do this. How does he know? Because every guy has had to ask out a girl and every guy remembers what its like to get turned down by a girl he likes. Not every girl knows that feeling because many girls don't ask guys out. And therefore have never experienced rejection. So the second you say his name he is gone know you may be interested. As soon as you ask him to study he will know that you like him. And he will also know how hard it was for you to do this. He will remember how hard it was for him every time he tride to start a conversation with a girl. So you will be treated like gold when you go threw this. I have seen guys that were jerks there entire lives get asked out by a shy girl and all of a suden for that one moment they become gentlemen.
What if the guy is a player and in high school but only a year older then the girl. he makes preverted jokes all the time, but the girl feels like he has special feelings for her because he always says nice things to her...then is it okay for the girl to admit to liking him and wanting more from him? how would the girl go about doing this? - 4 months ago
Warren's the man, couldn't have said it any better. GO FOR IT. Everybody will be amazed by your gutsy moves. Do it before someone else does. Sorry Warren, I just repeated what you said but it was a damn good answer.
Stop trying to play games. If you're interested, act interested. This isn't physics. On another note, I've never seen or heard a guy referring to a girl as "too desperate", it seems to me that it's an irrational fear on the part of the girl. The only blatantly desperate girls I've seen are in the front row of a rock concert screaming at the vocalist.
If you insist on trying to get something you want while acting like you don't want it as much as you really do, you'll end up watching someone who goes for what they want get what YOU want. If that makes sense.
It's not that I don't want to show interest. It's just that I don't want to be too obvious right now. I haven't talked to him in two years and am just trying to see if I have a shot. Again, I just don't want to be obvious. - 4 months ago
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