HIs friends say he's a sleeze and he will never love me or even remotely like me because I am no where near the level of attractive that the woman he pursues are at. I'm obese, and am not especially good looking so I think that's one thing. the other is that I'm not very spiritual and he believes he's more "pure" than me. That's my theory though. He has never actually said any of this to my face. I pursued him for 3 months before we became friends, waited a year, (for him to finish school in another province) and then called him twice a week to hang out. He only responded 1/6 of the time. Now Iv'e gone from seeing him once a month. to once every three days. (It's been four months since he returned from school) What can I do to win him over? As he never answers the phone when I call. EVER. and about 80% of the time when I leave a message for him, he doesn't call back. He's a sexually immoral catholic. VERY religious. but also very sexual. His best friend is a drop dead gorgeous supermodel and he's ALWAYS available whens he calls. picks up the phone on the first ring. and spends hundreds of dollars on the phone bill every month. just entertaining her in converastoin. He won't even add me to msn because he wants to have more room for his other girls.
You are the victim of the ever present, mind numbing, emotional crippling CRUSH.
You are suffering from the effects of an infatuation. This person will never live up to your fantasies because reality and fantasy are not the same.
He will always not do what you want and do things you don't want him to do. Why? Because he doesn't feel the same emotions towards you that you have for him.
The sooner you realize that, the sooner you'll feel better. Believe me, I have been the victim of the mind shattering effects of crushes several times. I am getting better at avoiding crushes as the years go by.
Crush= not good for your mind, emotions or your physical body. It can be very damaging until you get out of it and heal. Takes time and the best time to start is, NOW.
Why date that piece of junk anyway? You want the truth. (You won't get it here. This site is for serious sarcasmists.) You know what I think you ought to do. Go walk up to him with an engagement ring and tell him a piece of your mind. Make him put it on and then tell him to drop his hookup with that supermodel. You got to get your own fairy tale ending, you know, so walk up to your dream prince and say, "I've always liked you. Now go get a job and let's get hitched." You're 100% guaranteed to marry him if you follow through. Oh, and by the way, make sure the ring's worth at least $3,000. You wouldn't want him to think you're cheap!
Why don't you let it go and move on , he sounds like player and I don't believe the spiritual thing , like you said you're not that attractive so why you keep trying and he treat you like this.
I beg to you. Don't go near these guys again. I don't care whether you weigh 50 or 5000kg, no one deserves to be treated that way.
Why are running you after some guys who are obviously not interested in you? Friendship is not something that can be persued. If someone does not call you back or does only hand out with you once a month, it means they do not want to spend time with.
He won't add you, because he wants to have more room for others? So you are okay with the fact that you are not worth as much as these other girls are? Please stay away from these guys. They don't respect you at all.
He is not better than you. Nobody is better than you. If you are Christian you should know that we are all equal in the eyes of the Lord and nobody is perfect but God himself. And I'm assuming this guy is not God so that means he is just as good as you.
It's not your fault he is being stuck up and mean. Why are you putting up with it? Move on and learn to feel good about you so you won't go for these assholes.
Awww Unicorn, don't let him determine your existence because of his poor selective eyesight. You do exist, whether he fails to value people only acknowledging a small percent of the human population to converse with on a cell phone.The people he chooses to converse with are not some blessed special tight niche cool bunch-they put up with it because obviously they're not hanging out and having good time like real close friends do.Confident people would call him out, like a bad joke proving how lame/mundane he really is.You truly do not deserve to be apart of relationship made of plastic.Your too good for him.Trust me, you will move forward experiencing all the great things life has to offer and he will be in the same trapped mind frame your difference in levels wouldn't allow you to recognize him.
You're still on this guy and these crappy friends? Please please please move on from this guy and these crappy friends. You deserve better and please realize you don't deserve to be treated like crap.
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