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Was He Trying To Hurt Me Or Make Me Jealous?

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Shantal2501 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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I'll get straight to the point. The guy I've been crushing on made some comments that I'm not sure how I should react. I know he's attracted to me, but he is just VERY confusing. When I came into the room he asked me to sit next to him and then he goes "What did you do this weekend?" so I responded "nothing really, I went to the mall for a little bit, but I just took it easy." Then he said something that is completely uncalled for. He goes "Well, that's pretty funny because I went to the mall too but we didn't go in. Me and this girl Chelsea just stayed in the backseat the whole time." Of course he was implying that he slept with her but I don't get why he would do this! I think he has an idea that I like him or whatever but that is still no excuse. I was really mad at him after he said that and felt offended. I didn't show him how pissed off I was but I did ignore him. Does anyone know why he's doing this? Should I move on because honestly I want to punch him in the face lol.

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good-looking-geek (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
Yes move on; he's an asshole. I don't know why he would make such a rude comment unprovoked like that. He is not the only guy to just make an unexpected and deliberate offensive comment, but I don't know why they do it.

Now if it was a smartass remark in response to what somebody just said previously, then I would understand. But obviously that was not a smartass remark and was not even the least bit funny.

I am not sure if he is trying to make you jealous. One possible conjecture is that he has an ego problem and apparently he wants to brag about his new accomplishment.
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Question Asker I completley agree.. I was REALLY mad at him the entire day and the only reason that I had a doubt about him wanting to hurt me was because my friend said that maybe he was trying to make me jealous. He has a HUGE ego and I think it would be best to move on. Thanks for your opinion. It really helped!! - 3 months ago

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smartwater2424 (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
That's disgusting. He's insinuating that he slept with a girl in the parking lot at the mall?

First off, I highly doubt he did- so I don't know what's more disgusting, his trashy fantasy or the fact that he would tell it to you. And if he really did do that. well. GROSSSSS

Do yourself a favor- stay clear of this guy. You deserve a guy can have a conversation with you and can express his interest for you in a respectful way. They are out there- you just need to keep your standards high!

A good guy that is genuinely interested in you will make an effort to talk to you and get to know you personally.
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cacopuff (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
you should ask him how he feels about you because he might have though it was okay to you about something like that. You also need to him about hi s feeling about him because I he might just think that you only have friendship feelings for him. If he does know about you your feeling about him, then it mean he doesn't respect you feelings rubbing it in like that and you would need to just drop him and look for someone esle.
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