Lol! You need a little head cause you obviously have too much heart. I'm the exact opposite. I'm VERY cautious because I'm scared of getting hurt. Whenever you think you're about to fall... think... "STOP!" and just like.. try to control your heart and think... with your head, make it balanced!
Well... I used to have the same problem... Before you start to fall for them get to know them... what kind of person they are and everything... make sure that you like them and you don't just like them for one thing... take it slow and make sure it's one that you really like instead of giving alot of people a chance... just get to know them.
Right now you may be young and you just feel as if you need a girlfriend to have a good life, so you fall for almost everyone. There is really no way to stop it... but you could try to look at deeper things in girls other than her looks and passions. But don't worry! Girls love the lady's man!
As you get older, you'll find you become more wary and more cynical based on how you have been treated in the past and it will become less easy. Falling in love quickly is not really a bad thing though; at least you're passionate and don't mind jumping with both feet first. If you don't take a chance with someone, how can you ever truly love and be loved?
I question in love with love because maybe you ARE using your little head too much, instead of your big one.
Meaning, don't "like" a girl just because she's hot. That's too easy.
Get to know them. Talk. Listen. Take your time. Once you know them pretty well, you'll know that quite a few are NOT a good match for you, or are not interested in any of the same stuff, or are still hung up on their last boyfriend or whatever. Makes it easy not to "fall" for those ones.
Don't be desperate, be selective. The girl you end up with will appreciate it in the long run.
It comes with practice. I mean with every coming girl you become more desensitized to falling for her quickly. A good way not to do that is to just have your own purpose in life, and prioritize it above all else and never allow for a second even a thought of placing any girl above that purpose.
What you're doing is you've sent a wrong signal to the girls you meet. what about doing the opposites (sending opposite signals)? e.g., look away, avoid being touchy, avoid getting close to another new girl you met.
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