I always appreciate if a girl takes an interest by either asking me out or letting me know in certain terms that she likes me. The "first move" is sometimes a vague term describing a few situations in the romantic realm. It's always hard for me to approach a gal and "make a move" for several reasons. It's hard for guys sometimes to read into her true feelings by light and casual flirting as flirting is just another many varied ways of making conversation. Second, if I as a guy "make a move" there's always a chance of it being misinterpreted or being as mentioned by previous posters of the infamous "player". The best thing to do is to sincerely flatter him in some way and let your intentions be known by either asking him out or giving him your IM handle or phone number. The ball is then in his court and he can make his own decision to follow up or not. Then you can judge his actions. Good luck!
Yep, we guys love it if a girl makes first move.you can either come up to the guy, and just talk, or you can smile back when he stares. It ain't that hard!
Well if this is this the case, how far can girls make the moves, were does the guy step in once the girl has done what she can? do you know what I mean? - 3 months ago
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It really depends on the guy. Some guys that have no experience won't get the hints so in that case the girl might have to do all the work; other guys will get the hint and then they will come talk to you. There is no magic formula that says, 'guy will step in now' So that's why if you like the guy and he's not making a move, you're better off at least trying to make contact. I find it funny how some girls find this impossible to do, while others just do it without hesitation. - 3 months ago
i don't think it really matter who makes the move first. I make the first move all the time. Just go for it and you'll be surpise of what you get in return.:-) Hope this helps.
making "the move" can be anything, but it's just you initiating contact basically. Taking the pressure off the guy and whatnot. So for instance say, a guy is staring at you at a party. Well instead of being passive and waiting and waiting for him to come talk to you, you can be proactive and make the first move by going up to him first. It's really simple and guys LOVE it.
I'm suprised I thought men will think we are too easy it's for that I try not to do it anymore,and what about giving our number when they asked. - 3 months ago
Guys think you're easy when you give up sex on the first date....what you have to understand is that the so called players, will actually make a move, but the shy, insecure guys won't; so if you were to make a move it would most likely be on the shy guys as the players would most likely make contact first, and these are the ones that might be after sex only. the majority of guys won't think you're easy if you come talk to them. They will be flattered. And nothing wrong with giving your number. - 3 months ago
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I agree with sexwiseman, and if you hand out your number, write your real name down with a fake number because that weeds out the guys who only wanted your number just to see if they could get it. the ones who really want to talk to you will hunt you down lol. - 3 months ago
It's a jungle out there, especially when it comes to the dating games these days. With almost everyone that is single (as well as some of those that aren't) looking for the right guy or gal, it's hard...
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