First, thing he's a sophomore in college, I'm a freshman in college. Second, we've been talking, when we see each other which is usually around dinner time or so. And . When I talk to him, he keeps good eye contact and smiles a lot. and I'm sure I do the same. but there are awkward pauses, and I don't know what to talk about. I mean. I've never had really good conversations with guys except for my best almost gay guy friend. I don't know.
#1. Ignore what AU said. He isn't seeing it like you're seeing it.
#2. If you are interested, you need to just figure out what to talk about beforehand like what he did that day, if he won his sports game if he played recently, what types of hobbies he likes. Pry into his mind. Tell him a little bit of yours. See if you share common ground. Just because you haven't "clicked" yet doesn't mean you won't. Give it some time and talk about things you both like. It can work. I've seen it happen.
Sounds like he is in to you if he smiles a lot and keep eye contact. maybe he just get nervous around you. Try and keep talking with him till he feels more comfortable around you. and is used to talk with you , maybe thing will be easier once you know each toher a little more. can you help me with a question possibly? I have been getting to know this girl. We talk a few times a week, mostly me calling her. We have been friends for bout a year now. I have always had a little thing for her since we met. But nothing sexual between us. But lately when we hang out I get more than friends "vibe" from her. I am just not sure how to find out how feels about me, but I do not want our friendship to be awkward or end if I try to make a move and she is not into it
Generally, if neither person is capable of keeping a conversation going, I'd say the two shouldn't be hanging out. There's a level of "clicking" that has to take place for two individuals to hit it off, and it doesn't seem like you and him have it. There are BILLIONS of things to talk about.
Food Family School Home Animals Space Religion Life Philosophy Environment Politics Earth Time Stupid things you've done
The list goes on. If you keep trying to start conversations (see list) and silences keep coming up (assuming this isn't a "we're both too shy issue") then I really don't think there's much you can do but accept this relationship might not be meant to be.
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