a guy who I have been his classmate for a long time. We did not talk much to each other as I am generally quiet and focus intensively on my study, Last yr, he started to pay a lot of attention from me, prolonged eye contact, he just seeme wandering around where I am, stares at me a lot but not always talk to me, if he initiate the conversation, it usually very weird, just like ask how are you going? and just stared into my eyes and did not say anything else (FLIRTING!), and his buddies pay attention to me and turn to him when I walking pass them. I got the feeling that he is interested in me, but he has never asked me out, probably because he knows that I've got a boyfriend, I am not sure Anyway, this yr, I met him in class as we did a subject together, I initiated the convo with him when we I saw him at the Uni cafe, I think if I did not initiate the talk, I would not. However, he seemed to be really nice and friendly and smiles a lot which is a bit unusual as he always very quiet and selective (talking to his guys friends only, did not talk to girls much). I thought we broke the ice, but the next day, he completely ignored me like I am invisible, does any know why he is behaving like this? just weird and hard to read, we have been classmate for a while, I think it is good to be friends rather than giving cold shoulder, IS HE COCKY?
I really don't think being cocky is the right question. Something probably happened that is making you think that that you didn't type in your question. He is just being a guy. Maybe he was interested in you at some point, but like you said, maybe found out that you were already taken. Give him a little more time, see what happens.
I know he was interested in me last yr, but it has been 6 months and I heard he's got a girlfriend.I just wanted to make the relationship better, I do want to be friends with him, I did make the effort talking to him, but the next day he completely ignored me. I really don't know what I should do when we see each other, as I said I don't know him well, if we both have a relationship, why he is treating me nice and cold? should I just ignore him in return?I have never met his girl and he hasnt - 3 months ago
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I feel like maybe the chance to be boyfriend/girlfriend got thrown out the window. {Don't really know if you wanted it to be or not} Anyways, I would just try to be friends with him and if he keeps giving you the cold shoulder then forget about it all. - 3 months ago
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What I meant was being friends as classmates or acquaintances without being awkward around each other as we still see each other for a while now at least one more yr, I just can't understand why he is nice one day and cold the next day as I did not reject him or anything, he has never told me directly that he likes me - 3 months ago
No, he's just unsure if he should approach you. No doubt he's been told about the bf.he wants you know he's interested, but really I think he's right to let it go now and leave it up to YOU to make some sort of move in response.
It sounds he's really fallen for you, frankly, for whatever you think that' is worth.
He sounds quite a bit like myself. I highly doubt he is cocky. He is probably very interested and doesn't know quite how to express it. He is also somewhat possessive and jealous. He probably was slowly wanting to get to know you and then noticed you talking to another guy who he has rubbed against or he doesn't know. If he doesn't know the guy, then he is probably wondering if you are already in a relationship. If he knows the guy and has rubbed the wrong way, he probably feels a slight bit of resentment. So think a second. Were there any guys you talked to recently that you think that might apply to. He probably thinks of you often and wishes that you were with him instead of the other guy. Especially if he feels the other guy is a match or equal to himself. A contestant, if you will. As far as the cocky part, he seems like the guy (like myself) who sometimes battles between low self esteem (based on past experiences) and high self respect (based on his goals, aspirations, and dreams of success). So cut him a little slack. The more you talk to him, the more he'll appreciate you.
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