So I told this guy I liked him and he was very shy and with a huge smile he said he had someone already. He didn't look at me he was just kicking the ground and smirking while he said it. He said he thought things I did to flirt were cute and he looked up at me and got close while he said that. Everytime I gave him opportunity to walk away and let it go he'd start up another conversation about things he noticed I did or compliment me on being so bold and how he admired that. Afterwards he asked if he could at least have a hug and when I leaned in to hug him he kissed me on the cheek (he planted a really good one and it startled me) he hugged me around the neck and squeezed. We held on for longer than normal and then he said he'd talk to me tomorrow. Since then he's flirted, he stares but when I look at him he looks away, he made a comment about drooling over my behind, he checks me out up and down then looks away, he puts himself in my space and makes sure I know he's around, we still talk a lot and have better conversations than we did before, he stares at my lips when I talk and the only physical contact we've had was the initial hug but now he reached out and squeezed my elbow and shoulder one day while he was playfully teasing me, he's an absolute perfect gentleman when he's around me and I want to trust my gut feeling because I feel this tension so thick you could cut it. But I'm confused.if he said he had someone then why is he doing this. I tried to ignore him but he turned up the heat when I did that. Guys I need your help.explain why guys say no but they ACT like YES.
Update: So just last night he started to get silly with me to get me to laugh and stuff. I know I must be totally naive but does this mean he is starting to like me too or like one guy mentioned is he just open to "other" options? or ego boost?
3 months ago
Elementray, my dear anonymous. Yes he has someone but he's clearly open to suggestion.if YOU are. It's not that complicated.
Hey, I've been guilty of this behavior myself. Not too many guys would not be flattered by a woman openly saying they like him, and not too many guys would not flirt a little in return.
But it sounds like he may be getting a little over the top with it.
Unless you are signalling him, deliberately or not, that it's OK to take it further. think about whether you are doing that. It sounds to me like you are.
You had bettter let him know to cool his jets. Unless YOU are also open to suggestion! With all the problems of another woman.
I suppose I have been just as flirty but I DID let him know that I was interested in him so why should my flirtation be a surprise. I really did decide I wasn't going to pursue it any further and then he started making sure he was in everything I did and that's when he started up with teasing me and squeezing my arm. So that of course started me thinking about him again and just last night he started acting very silly with me doing things to make me laugh. It's hard to just forget about it. - 3 months ago
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You say he's open to suggestion....however.....when the subject came up he says he doesn't think he could ever "do that" whatever "that" is (I'm assuming we're talking about cheating or just a fling). So even if he is interested in just that why did he say he could never do that but then act like he could???? Why so confusing?? Some days he's hot next day he's cold.... - 3 months ago
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Maybe he's not all THAT serious about the current relationship. Some days he thinks about other alternatives...maybe because he had an argument with the current one?
Or he just likes teasing you on occasion. I've been guilty of that sort of thing myself, being a proper guy most of the time and then on some days lifting their skirts, etc. - 2 months ago
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It means he does have someone. But if he didn't he would totaly go out with you. From what you wrote he may actualy be wishing he didn't have a girlfriend. Imagine being with this guy you realy liked and meeting another guy who fulfilled you every desire. Now what do you do. Well that seems like the situation he is in. Also you having the courage to tell him you liked him was huge. Guys love it when girls do that and you did it. Which means he is going to be playing that moment when you said you liked him over and over in his head.
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