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How not to be "just friends"

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Tatiahna (Age:Under 18)     When: 3 months ago
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How do you avoid the "just friends" range? I like this guy a lot and lately I've been getting close to him but then he suddenly started calling me his best friend. wtf? I was flirting with him. not getting to know him. I mean I was trying to get to know him but I was flirting along the way. But then I think he might know I like him because all of his friends call me his girlfriend. Which I'm not. We aren't dating but I don't want to be just friends with him. How do I avoid that?

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l-hedoniste (Age:36 to 45)      When: 3 months ago
This is the first time I've ever seen a girl get friended. Congratulations.

My first instinct is that he's playing dumb, and you can clear that up, right quick: "It's nice that I'm your best friend, but I want to be your GIRLfriend, so what are we going to do about it?"

The advice I give guys is that once you get friended, it's over, since most girls punish guys who can't make a move. Therefore, the guys have to either take the friendship, or drop her and hope she comes calling. You have the option of getting aggressive; harass him about it a little. Same warning to you, though: you will either seal the deal, or blow the friendship up.
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Question Asker He didn't actually reject me... yet. I was thinking of asking him out but I wasn't sure how not to cross over to the "just friend" side of the board - 3 months ago

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That-Guy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Ask him if he's interested, then he'll answer or think about it. After that, you guys can continue to be friends or start dating.
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banker (Age:30 to 35)      When: 3 months ago
Just continnue being nice, eventually it will develop to something else.
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