Background: I've had a thing for this girl for a while, we have always flirted. She broke up with her boyfriend about a month ago, so we started hanging out more. One night we were out with friends and kissed, and on the way home talked about it and admitted we had a thing for each other. So then I go over to her house one night and things go well before I go home, and on the way home she sends me a text that says "Sorry you couldn't stay the night, I want you to know that I do have a thing for you, but I just got out of a relationship and don't wanna rush into anything", which was fine by me, I didn't expect to stay over that night. So we hang out a couple more times that week, and everything is cool for the most part, except I tried asking her out to dinner one night, like a proper date dinner, and she said that she couldn't because she was having dinner with friends, and then we made no plans afterwards.
So, its my experience that if a girl really likes a guy, if she absolutely can't go out on one date with him, she always wants to make some kind of plans to do something very soon. So, partly because she has tests this week, and partly because I'm tryin to play cool, we haven't talked or hung out much since last weekend. So, my question is this, is she probably still interested in me, or for some reason not anymore do you think? Should I play cool, and possibly move on to the next girl, or should I continue going after her? And if so, what would be a good idea for possibly raising her interest in me?
dinner with her friends could have been a girls night, your not gonna be seeing her that night. girls night usually means no guys. and just because she's going out with her friends doesn't make plans with you afterwards doesn't mean she doesn't still like you. call her up and see what she's doing this weekend and try to see her. and yah you still want to play it cool and not rush her into anything she's not ready for, that will just mess things up. but you need to still be around her, you don't want to fall into a friend zone. a random call or text out of the blue will keep her thinking about you. from the sound of it your still in a good spot, don't fade away.
It's a jungle out there, especially when it comes to the dating games these days. With almost everyone that is single (as well as some of those that aren't) looking for the right guy or gal, it's hard...
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