I sometimes spot girls that I would want to go up and have a conversation with.you know (Hi, I'm XXXX, I saw you from across the room and wanted to get to know you) type of conversation. but I mostly see girls around my campus who are sitting and studying in the common's areas.
so, is my conversation a welcome distraction from the studies, or am I trying to pick up chicks who don't want to be bothered?
I do most my studying at home so if I am studying at school I am usually cramming and super stressed about an exam. I would approach a girl if she is studying and looks up for a little bit every once in a while. If she looks intensely into what she is doing I would leave her alone.
It depends on if she "looks" at you too. If she looks at you, then glances away, then looks again, she probably thinks you look nice. THEN I would say go for it. ALSO keep in mind, she may be shy. So when you approach her, she may be a little self conscious as well. You caught her off gaurd, since that usually doesn't happen that often to a quiet person. I wouldn't mind if a cute guy came up to talk to me, even though I would be having a heartattack. lol.
Usually if I'm doing that I wouldn't want to be bothered. If you see a girl looking at you a lot and kind of posing, then I think it's safe to say that she at least likes the attention.
Depending on how they react in the first couple of minutes of you talking to them, if its a positive response than they are obviously welcoming a distraction and are maybe interested, if they seem wierded out or negative then you should probably make it a short conversation, because if more time passes they will probably get irritated at the distraction!
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