so my roommate has this friend. I told her I thought he was cute and he was totally down talking about how much he had wanted to kiss me the night we had met. we hung out a few times talked, held hands and hugged but never anything more. I get the guts up to kiss him we make-out all night and then he says he can't do anything more because it will make things awkward and that he thinks he likes another girl. so we don't see eacother for a little while. now he is over all the time, he gets jealous when I hang out with my ex, he holds my hand and cuddles with me and it seems like he needs all my attention whether we are with people or not but then when we go to sleep he always sleeps alone. he flirts with me like crazy,looks into my eyes when he talks to me,teases me and never talks about other girls anymore. except the other day when he threw my shoe he said he did that to a girl he went on a date with once and she flipped out and he thought it was kewl that I just laughed. so I duno what the heck is up.i also sent him a text last nite cause I knew he wasn't feeling well just to say get better soon and he called me and said that it was really sweet of me and that he would see me soon and then quickly added my roommates name in there.hmmmm I'm confused I feel like I should just drop him but I get the butterflies for this guy and I haven't gotten them in so long.i really like him but I don't want to get hurt.
he sounds like an idiot to me.but I think this idiot likes you a lot. he is probably the insecure type as well, which might explain his odd behavior (ex. throwing your shoe). if you like him a lot, I'd say go for it! getting hurt is only temporary anyways
Some hurt isn't temperary but he does like you I know that much so go 4 it - 3 months ago
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Oh yeah. I forgot that there are some types of hurt that don't fade away completely...but those can only happen when you're head over heels over that person, right? - 3 months ago
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I don't know about him being insecure since he touches me all the time...you would think he wouldn't have the confidence to pull that off in that case. - 3 months ago
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Haha. male insecurity is harder to see than you think. insecurity doesn't mean he can't touch or flirt with you. I'm pretty insecure myself, so I'm always trying to not screw up around the girl I like, so I flirt and touch and stuff, but inside I'm thinking, "man, I must look like an idiot right now." - 3 months ago
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I need more opinions on this matter... I really don't see why he would tell me in less words that he just wants to be friends and then flirt with me like crazy all the time after...he comes down to see my roommate and then ends up spending more time talking and touching me...she even sees it and gets a little angry...do you think maybe he doesn't want her to be upset? - 3 months ago
i think that likes you alot! maybe at first he talk about tis gurl to get your attention or get you jealouse so that might explain wen you hang out wit your ex so I think he likes you but is to shy to ask you to be his girlfriend or tell you he likes you
U think so? even though he doesn't ever sleep with me? do you think its cause of my roomie? ugh I'm so frazzled because its such a weird confusing situation lol - 3 months ago
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I keep thinking that if he doesn't like me he is just really leading me on...and that's so mean...cause I flat out told him I like him and stuff...but then he said the stuff about the other girl and that if we slept together it would make things awkward. - 3 months ago
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