You gotta hit them with game and conversation enough to where it's that sweet spot. Then throw the poke'ball and catch her. If you hit too much, you seem desperate and she's died. Too crappy and she'll run away. Every poke'mon is different and takes a different point of attack.
A simple hello are what's up goes a long way. talk to her and just be really nice. the way I learned/ am learning is to start talking to a lot of girls even if your not interested in them. this is just a form of practice for when it really counts.
Learn to casually talk to them about anything, but dating; then after you have gotten their trust or entered their 'comfortable' zone, you tell the to accompany you to coffee, lunch, whatever. The key is in nonchalantly speaking to them, making them laugh, gaining their trust, and then going in for the attack :P
Great advice if she is in one of your classes but if it is a stunner you saw on the bus? What then? - 3 months ago
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Well, will you see her again, or was that the first and last time? :) But you can try, hi there..are you a local here...ive been riding this bus for over 2 years, an never seen you before. What's your name? Where are you from, etc? See, if you deliver those lines casually without being nervous, you have a chance. :) - 3 months ago
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I can certainly ask those questions, but can I doing it in a non stalkerish, calm, confident manner is harder than it looks, sounds and anything else. thanks anyway. I appreciate it. - 3 months ago
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Practice practice practice...the more you think about it, the less chances you'll have of doing it; like anything else in life, the first time you do it, you might freeze; then you'll take that experience and say, ok, I screwed up that time, next time ill try this...and that's the only way to improve; if you just think about it with no actions, then you'll never ever learn or improve. - 3 months ago
Men often comment that they would love it if girls approached them first, but I have found that the very opposite is true. More often than not, a guy is turned off by what he sees as desperation....
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