Falling for an exchange student?

Well, are you dating, at least you are according to your profile. So you would leave your guy for a one-time deal that in the end would be just for fun. Is that how it is? {I'm just trying to get a feeling on your feelings} You obviously know that going into the relationship, no matter what level it's on. I'm glad you mentioned you live in a small town. I feel like that says a lot right there. I'm getting the feeling like you just needed something fresh and new. I'd be excited too in the situation you're in. I don't think I'd drop my girl though for an exchange student. Think about how that would sound for a moment. "I'm going to leave you {whom I've known for awhile} for the exchange student {even though he won't be here long}" While that may not be you're intention that would be the message you would send.

If you aren't dating and haven't updated your profile, then I guess I'd say go for it. It just might be a little awkward for him. He just got to the states and is being harassed by an American girl. {lol} I'm just saying that it might be a lot for him in a short time.

You said it's been awhile since you've seen him. I don't know. If it was me I wouldn't go through with it all. Just be friends, that's easier and you can still speak some Japanese to him!

Okay I say go for it becasue you never what could happen but keep in mind that he might have a girl back home and he won't betray her s0o0o0o0 go about this casually but be confident and observent.

Yes, as someone who has been to Japan I think you're being wise and thoughtful and in fact japanese guys won't expect a casual affair, usually, and probably there's a girl friend back home who knows him and his family; he won't likely give her up.

So take it slow and keep it light. I wouldn't expect a serious relationship, just the beginnings of a friendship.

But I like Japanese people too and I think you will have fun with him as a friend without the possible complications of anything more!

You're making good guesses about him. Like you, I love Japan and Japanese people, and you're quite right about him.he's serious about being here and also would never betray his fiance.likely there's a fiance, a girl that he is already thinking of marrying maybe years in the future.and casual relationships, while not unheard of, are not typical of Japanese culture in general although of course with guys who have lived in the US there might be exceptions!

So tread carefully, you don't want to hurt anyone and not yourself either.