I have been attracted to my neighbor ever since I met her. We hang out a lot and flirt back and forth. She will call me funny, laugh at my antics, jokes with me, smiles big when she sees me, and approaches me when I’m at outside.
Yesterday night, I told her how I felt. She did not say anything really, but was not uncomfortable at all. The thing that bothers me is that she never really mentioned it or said she did not feel the same way or did. As we parted, she said she’d call me the next day (today).
I saw her today after she got out of class and she did not act any differently at all towards me and smiled me. I called her about 20 minutes after I saw her but I did not get an answer. I am pretty sure it is because she had to go to work and hour later. But other than that I am not sure. I am just going to lay off talking to her (unless I see her outside) until she comes to me. What do you think?
Yes, that's the right thing to do. She obviously isn't all that interested in you.and usually people are a little hesitant to get involved with a neighbor, it's almost like incest, isn't it?
And all the complications if things don't work out!
I would just let her have some time maybe she just isn't sure of how she feels about you and is thinking about it. Don't worry she'll answer you about it sooner or later, just act like you normally do and when she's ready she'll mention it to you.
I agree. You have professed your interest to her so therefore, she knows you like her. Now the ball is in her court to make the next move. In the meantime, go about your merry way and you should get an answer soon. I'm not saying ignore her or any of that. Do what is normal, but don't push her to make a decision (call, text, etc). She's probably taking her time to consider all the variables, the pros and cons of dating you vs. being great friends, especially with both of you being neighbors. I wouldn't worry about it. Either way, hopefully it sounds like you don't have a lot to lose. :) Best wishes!
You have already asked her. Give her time to decide. If you keep pushing her about it she is more likely to say no. She justs wants time to decide, so give it to her. She knows you want an answer and she will give it to you. You've told her how you feel, so its up to her now. Just relax.
Also, calling her after you just saw her maybe wasn't the best decision. She knew what you were calling for and that's why she didn't answer. I would recommend not talking to her a much, if at all until she comes to you at explains her feelings. Let her bring it up.
Well I have to say that you should approach her and ask her for an answer. If you guys are really good friends she should respect you enough to give you an honest answer. Just don't be too worried.
I respectfully dissagree with this, coolgirl81 is right. I would not force the issue and bug her into making a decision. On the other hand, she should respect you enough to give you an honest answer soon, not keep you waiting. But do not push the issue if you don't have to! - 3 months ago
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