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How often do you think about a girl?

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afterschoolgirl (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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I'm just curious, but to all you guys with crushes out there: how often do you think about the girl? How do you feel around her? What goes through your head? (Especially if you're a shy type)

I kind of want to know how I make him feel; he follows me, sits in places where we can watch each other "discreetly" from across a room, his body stiffens when I unexpectedly show up close to him, he maintains deep eye contact and then "acts aloof" and pretends to ignore me when he's really watching from the corner of his eye. He wants my attention, but we both "act aloof" and will do subtle things like pass by very close without looking at each other (and smirk). How can I tell if his feelings are strong? What is he thinking?

Guys, when you like a girl, what goes through your head? How do you feel?

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m3ltd0wnpt (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
a while back I met this girl that I really liked. and I'm usually a funny guy. and a bunch of friends incluing her went to the movies. and I was like dead quite. I couldn't think of anything funny to say :S (DW! I'm going to formal with her now :P)

ud always be on msn to wait till she comes on. and whenever she goes online on msn. I would always be like :O yay she's on. and start the convo. you think about her heaps. and then you start doing everything differently. like. use perfume from time to time. and stuff like that. try and look better.

ok if you think he likes u. then everything about you he will think is perfect and nothing is wrong. you will probably have to make the first move. or unless he gets some courage. he will do something. but he will only be shy if he really likes u.
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Blake26 (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
I think about her everyday. She is constantly in my mind. I feel unworthy around her because she is perfect. I want to respect and honor her and make her happy. I want to make her smile, laugh, and fill her with joy. As far as what goes in my head, I think about how beautiful she is, on the outside and the inside. I think about how to make every moment we have together special and something she can remember.

I'm maybe a small bit shy, but not as much as I used to be. Probably more quiet though. As far as what you can do, go sit by him, be near him, talk to him. Just get to know him, make him (and yourself) more comfortable when you're together. I would recommend to stop being so passive. When you pass by him in the hallways, give him a high five, say hello. Quit smirking at each other and smile more.

Since he is shy, I would say that he struggles coming up with something to say. He probably feels like he has to say something special to you to make your heart melt. It sounds like he can't do that at the moment, but his actions are speaking loud. He follows you and wants to be around you. He just has a hard time figuring out what to do when he is around you. Hope I helped.
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wally (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
I'll try to see her between classes or just stare ate her , think about her all day long even if I don't see her ,i became nervous when I'm around her and quite , if he's shy try to make the first move if you like him .
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Laxman2531 (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
I am really shy. When I get around my crush I don't get "aloof" but I sort of get a little nervous. And I think about her everyday. All the time. She's sort of one of my friend so I know her more than you probably know this guy. I'd say go talk to him and see where things go. If he's as shy as me he won't make the first move.
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Betawolf (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
Back when I was shy, I would ALWAYS think about my crush. Every day I would try to find her in the hallways of school and smile and make eye contact ect. Of course I was shy, so when I was around them I wouldn't be able to say much to them, especially not start a conversation. As for what went through my head? I would always just be like omg she's so good looking and I need to talk to her (of course I couldn't).

As for the second paragraph, just start talkin to him. you'll know right away if he likes you. He will studder and try to think up of something smart to say. He might try to impress you. If he is good, most shy people arent, he will be more tricky and appear confident and know what to say exactly. Just get to know him! Even if he doesn't like you like that, another friend is never a bad thing!
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