Recently, I started liking this guy but I don't know if I should progress to anything else because I don't know if he's being friendly, shy, or just isn't interested.Positives-:When I was too shy to talk to him, he'd smile at me.:He approached me first and had a small conversation with me.:If it's just me and him, he actually has a lot to say and has no problem holding eye contact.:He's pretty funny and friendly in general.:I caught him staring at me(like more than 8 seconds) and he then turned and continued talking to his friends.Negatives-:I don't see him that often. I only talked with him twice.:I tried asking him to hang out with some other friends, and he said he couldn't go.:In groups (of like my friends), he barely speaks.:I've never flirted with him ever. It just doesn't feel right anymore (seeing as I've been rejected more than 4 times in the past and never dated anyway).Other-:Whenever I do see him, he's by himself.:No physical contact; I never touched him and he never touched me.So, can anyone assume what could be going on here, or do I need to provide more information.I appreciate any feedback!
Well I'm going to analyze every point you mentioned and tell you what it meant and it's all from my experience of boys...first the positives. I see that the first three points are normal...the fourth point you are describing him and that's no point...the fifth one is just the thing that could make me say yes he likes you because it seems that he cares about you.
From the negatives I can tell that he is a little bit shy not much...An advice: In this stage don't make him feel you like him at all like when he sees you anywhere Just look at him for one second and then turn around and speak with your friends pretend that he isn't there...he will like you more and then you wouldn't need to ask us what's going on. Because he will tell you himself trust me he will.
I guess that makes sense. So all I need to do is ignore him and not speak to him at all?But that wouldn't come off as being rude? LOL - More than a year ago
He likes something about you.. he approached you first.. a shy guy is not going to do this if not interested. Keep trying and ask if he wants to go for lunch or something where you can sit down by yourselves, but make it something less involving than dinner or a movie or the like for a get together meeting.
I'm thinking he does sort of like you but is a little uncomfortable. Try to talk to him and get him feeling comfortable around you. The rest will go from there.
No I didn't say don't talk to him at all..look you didn't understand what I meant..Talk to him normally but don't make him feel that you like him because when guys feel that that you like them they Just go away for no reason not all of them but most of them..and what I said about looking at him for a second and turning your head away is when you're with your friends not with him okay? Good luck
nobodygirl
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
He might like you or he might not. It sounds like he sort-of does, but then he might act like that with every girl. You should talk to him more and see how he behaves to be able to tell.
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