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Whats the difference between friendly flirting and wanting to be with someone?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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I met a guy at work over a year ago. We started talking and became friends about 6 months ago. We started flirting a lot, texting each other til 2 or 3 in the morning. He would make jokes about us hooking up or call me cute and beautiful. He made a couple comments about me rejecting his advances, but kinda laughed them off. We've only hung out alone, just the two of us, a couple times. Once we went to dinner and a movie and another time we had lunch, both times he offered to pay, but I didn't let him. He has a really flirty personality with some of our other female friends, but not as flirty as ours was. I never took him seriously, and even told him that he was all talk and no action. I'm kinda dumb when it comes to flirting and games that guys play. He never made a definate move, or asked me out and he eventually starting sleeping with another one of my friends. I have a new boyfriend, but my guy friend still flirts a lot with me. He makes jokes about stealing me away from my boyfriend and says we should run away together. He still won't admit to me that he hooked up with our friend, but asks for details about my relationship with my boyfriend. Anytime there's a problem, he suggest that I dump my boyfriend and find someone new.
I'm not sure if he ever really liked me or if he was just being super overly friendly. He still makes little comments about us hooking up, but not as much as before. I would have dated him before he hooked up with my friend, but he's kinda off limits now. I still have some feelings for him, and just want to know how to tell if his feelings are genuine or if he was just looking to hook up, or if it was just friendly flirting

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If he's flirting with you but hooking up with a mutual friend, I would say he's looking only for a little action. Good for you to stay your distance, unless all you want is is sex on the side. Focus on your boyfriend and let this other guy play the field, which is what it sounds like he wants.
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