I have asked everyone I know and they all say the same thing but I'd like some female expertise. I haven't really gotten close to any female before because I haven't found one who wants to get to know me beyond my looks or body. Anyway I really feel I have bonded with one named Tara. We are always together, when she goes somewhere she calls on me to go with her.
However there is a guy named John who when I am with her and she sees she starts blowing him kisses, making the kissing noise ETC and this is right in front of me or when I am with her. My friends some female and some male say she is trying to get me jealous but why would she do that for?
Update: She also one time grabbed another guy by his shirt where the buttons are in front of me. Yet when I am with her she say's that guy is crazy and a snitch.
3 months ago
I think two things may be going on 1. She is trying to make you jealous. 2. She only views you as a friend. But it really seems as she likes you and is trying to make you jealous and see how you react. You should try making a move. Something subtle little try to keep eye contact for more then five second. Then move on to brushing your hand on her hand. Then you'll really be able to tell how she feels.
Well, I went out and saw her. She was with a close friends of hers. Her friend another female stated is that your boyfriend? To which she replied no. I then was alone with her and told her how it made me nervous about what her friend said. Yet I manned up and stated how nice it is to think of her as my GF. She gave me an authentic smile, and lightly kicked me on my leg. I am not sure if that meant to keep going but if anyone here can help it'd be appreciated. - 3 months ago
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Ok your just gonna have to totally honest with her. And just tell her. Just tell her. Don't hold back at all. I guess she can't get the picture. - 3 months ago
Not a bad idea. I have seen her bad side but I posted a response above and got it out but now I am unsure if I should wait to see if she understands what I said or what. Still you are onto something. - 3 months ago
As bad as I hate to say it,sounds to me like maybe she trying to make john jealus,and not you. In other word she maybe using you,or maybe she thinks all that,and that men flock to be near her.Or maybe she don't know what she wants.Either way she is fickle,and probably needs to mature a bit.young women like her,assuming she's around your age,sometime's like to play the feild. Now I'm not trying to put things into your mind,But personaly would not be her boyfriend right now,as long as she contiues to blow kisses at another guy while in your presence. Now I'm not saying I would not still talk to her,but also do not do everything she wants,like go every where she does. She may break your heart down the road somewhere.So just don't fall in love too fast,and let her go by herself a couple of time's.This may make her rethink what she's doing.Becuase it is not right for to be with you and blow kiss'es too another guy in front of you,that tells me right now that her feeling for you are not that great.
I appreciate the answer. I feel she is a flirt and knows how to get someone jealous. I am shy so maybe she sees that as a way to get me to see if I am interested in her or not. Now if after she did it and the two of them left I'd know she liked him but I always leave with her in the end. She may do it to make him think he has a chance when she likes me. Love is confusing but I appreciate the advice. - 3 months ago
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