I met Man 2 through my ex 2 years ago. They were friends. After 2 years of dating my ex, when things fell through (he broke up with me), I confided in his friend, who I had become close with (man 2). One night after a few cocktails each, we were on the phone and it became VERY sexual. We ended up having phone sex for almost 4 hours (no lie) we both admitted to always being attracted to each other.
He said how he liked me from the day we met (even though we both had other significant others. It was great; I DEF was always attracted to him.I grew confused because I still wanted my ex. After a drunken fight w/ the ex telling him how I thought I'd go for a drink w/ man 2, I decided I really needed to back away from both of them. Man 2 was GREAT about it, he agreed we needed distance, so we stopped talking.4 months later (of no talking) I was randomly thinking of man 2. I still had a crush on him, but more than anything felt bad we were no longer friends, I LOVED him as a friend.
I randomly emailed him and said that I hoped we could still be friends and I was sorry how things worked out. That got us talking, he said he was thinking about me the night before and wanted to call, but thought it might be awkward. We caught up a little via email and he asked me to call him later - I did. I thought we'd be friends, but immediately he said how great it was to hear my voice and that even though we hadn't talked in 4 months, his feelings for me hadn't changed and he was no longer conflicted about the situation (meaning my ex).
I was a bit in shock, but happy. Unfortunately, we live 1 1/2 hrs away from each other. If we were closer I know we'd have already seen each other, but the distance has made our interaction be strictly via phone. I'd LOVE to get together and see where this goes, but I don't really know how to make it happen. I've thrown it out there and he seems to want the same thing, but he hasn't jumped at a chance of actually getting together. After a few days of talking EVERY day (multiple times), and having phone sex a few times and verifying that we are both okay with going through with this we haven't talked at ALL for a few days...Today is Saturday. On Wednesday, I sent my last flirty text saying that hopefully I'll get to see him soon he IMMEDIATELY responded...(continued)
Update: Well, he finally text me - TWO WEEKS later! All it said was "long time no talk . . . " That was yesterday morning. I guess it's nice he was thinking about me on a Monday morning at 10AM... I haven't responded, suggestions what I should say back?
8 months ago
um it sounds like he's into your body more than you so therefore he's not that into you. so what you need to do is move open because everything ya'll are doing he's telling your ex it's just a set up and you fell for it. date someone that isn't friends with your ex and you can enjoy
Oh well ... call him again but if he doesn't call you back or like offer anything then just try to move on. To me it seems as if he is just playing with you.
He seems like he likes you a lot but he's waiting for you to make the first move. Call him and talk about your relationship and tell him how you feel and that you want this to go somewhere
Except that I did offer for us to get together and he didn't jump at it. Although he said it was a great idea, but still...he didn't accept or try to reschedule. - 9 months ago
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I usually try to use humor to break the ice (no not stupid jokes or creepy sexual innuendos) I'll usually ask her a question about a class (if she is in one of my classes) or about something else. I might also comment on her clothing or smile, or something.
Once after that I'll tell her my name, and get a conversation, I'll usually tease her a little to ease any tension
How do they typically respond?
Well, it's worked 2 times and I've used it 2 times.. so 100% so far!
In one case there was girl in my class and she worked at the bookstore. I asked her if she liked the class and she said she didn't know. So I teased her about not knowing her own opinion, (nothing mean, just light humor) after that we got talking and I ended up getting her number.
(Age:25 to 29)
When: 9 months ago
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