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Would it be smart to just give her my number?

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joene (Age:18 to 24)     When: 9 months ago
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So I've had a crush on this girl for some time now. I see her about once a week, in the store; not a HUGE talking opportunity, since I only see her for about 30 seconds. We've had *some* smalltalk, but no real getting-to-know-you kind of talks, you know... The good news is that she always smiles kind of flirty, looks into my eyes, real Hollywood style :)

The bad news is: I'm way too shy, to just ask her out or something. I really want to get to know her, though; would it be smart to just give her my number? She can easily choose to *not* call, killing me even more. I don't think she even knows my name (my bad, but hey, I'm a shy guy), but I'm not looking for the creepy approach.

Insecurity is hell :) Thanks!

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BeautifulDoll392
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BeautifulDoll392 (Age:Under 18)      When: 7 months ago
Hey! I'm a girl so I might be able to help. :) Anywho. So.. this girl is giving you the "'i'm into you" signal and the look in the eye a total I want you! So your girl seems into you so give her your number a really cute way to give her your number is to just have the number ready on a small ( but legiable) piece of paper and slip it into her hands an awsome way to show a girl your totally digging her!

Good Luck and Hope this helps!!
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nobodygirl
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nobodygirl (Age:Under 18)      When: 9 months ago
Getting her number sounds like a great idea! While you two are making small talk, say "I've gotta go, but it's great talking to you. Can I get your number?"

The thing is that girls love guys to talk to them, and it seems you don't have much of an opportunity for that. So getting her number and getting to know her would be perfect.
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lolypop (Age:Under 18)      When: 9 months ago
A lot of girls only like shy guys. And I am one of them. I don't like guys who are way out of control and crazy. She will probably like your shyness. Try to practice talking to people who you don't like first, and then speak to her. That was the advice that I got. (Credit to marisa). When you gain self confidence, talk to her! You shouldn't just ask for her phone number right off the bat. Get to know her first and then you could ask her out and get her phone number. And if she doesn't call you, don't get upset over one girl. There are plenty more in this world. If you aren't right for her, en that it the way it is. I wish you good luck and practice that self-confidence!
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hy7y8
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hy7y8 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
You know what? I'll tell you something I love shy guys and so as most girls you know why? Because they are easy to approach and like you...you seem to be like that so giving her your number is a good idea in my opinion If you really want her. In that way you will just build a bridge between you and her so she can approach you easily but that's no problem right?

Your problem is that you are afraid that she won't call you...well in that case like I said you have built that bridge the rest is up to her...you might find the car (she's not a car it's just an exp.) accrosing it to get to you and you might not...but in either cases you didn't lose anything because you still have a bridge ok So move on and give her your number. Good luck and sorry for the mysterious sentences but that's my way of answering.
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tex151
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tex151 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
Ok if you give her your number, your leaving her the choice to call you or not, don't do that most women who take the guys number only will not call them, you need to get her number, just say something like I pretty busy right now, but I would really like to take you out to dinner, so let me get your number, and we can set up a time this weekend.
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Curtis1993 (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
Yea right. That's what I do. I usually said anything call me or sms me and girls will kinda ask my number then I just give it. That's all! =)
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tex151
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tex151 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
No no no no no, and no, here's what you do my friend first off grow some balls, once you do that then go up to this girl and simply say something like hey what are you doing friday/sat night and if she says well no plans say this, say ok cool well I'm taking you to a movie sat , now at this point she will either say something like ok sounds good or she will say I have a boyfriend if she has a boyfriend then say oh ok cool and leave it at that but if she says sounds good, then say ok well let me get you phone number and ill call you on friday to set up a time, then when she gives you the number, say I'm looking forward to seeing you this weekend and leave, very simple DO NOT stay there and chit chat forever just get it and leave, trust me on this, and then of course call her when you want to go to a movie.
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Scrimz21 (Age:Under 18)      When: 8 months ago
If you're too shy to talk to her... why would you want her to call you?
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Genesis5
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Genesis5 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 9 months ago
I hope that she is not shy as well and decides not to call you because she is too scared or insecure.

Asking a girl out is scary,... but truly the worst part is the anticipation of it. That is the same with everything. I hate needles. Despise them. They make me pass out they freak me out so bad. I actually worried more about getting a needle in my arm for 1 week before an operation, than I did about the operation (and it was pretty serious). But, once I got stuck, it was over, done, nothing more to worry about,.. and I was fine. Point is, you will psyche yourself out so much if you keep waiting that when you do decide to ask her out, you won't even be able to talk.

Try inviting her to an event with you and some friends, and she can bring friends. That way, it's not just you asking her out, but seeing if she would enjoy hanging out. She will get the message, and I'm sure you will be able to talk more about a private date once you have her out.

Best of luck, and I hope you conquer the butterflies.
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