I like a guy at work. He is really cute. I have become really good friends with him and we share almost everything. Sometimes I even take him some lunch and he enjoys eating my food. He's always flirting with me but in a friendly way. We work together. Yesterday was his birthday and I bought him a gift. He cried because I was the only one who remembered and I started to cry as well. It made me feel good. When he's down I'm always by his side. He has previously broken up with his girlfriend but she is pregnant. I'm dying to kiss him or something, but I'm afraid that he might not like me as I do and will ruin our friendship. He says she was a one night stand and that her pregnancy was a mistake, but he will still look after his child. He's a good man, and I want to be part of his life in a different way. What should I do? Take the 1st step or wait until he does? I'm very confused. He treats me differently than other girls and is always smiling and staring at me directly in the eyes. Do you think there may be a chance that he really likes me?
While I do advise that you need to date, and figure out what you are looking for, you also need to keep in mind if your could stay with the person that you are getting involved with.
What I mean is that, he is going to be a father. Yes, he seems like a great guy, and he may be someone that you could spend your life with, but would you be ready to have a child (that is not yours) in your life, as well as his one night stand girl (who will be around). If no, then I would say invest your feelings into someone else.
In most other cases I would say go for it, and see where things go. But he is obviously going through a lot, and he is having a kid (that changes everything), so just dating him, to date him, probably isn't the best idea (plus, he might not be able to invest the time into you that you would like). There is also a lot of baggage with this guy, and he seems absolutely strung out, I mean he cried when people at work didn't remember his birthday,... he is stressed to the max (after all, most guys don't remember their own birthday).
If you really do care for him, and you are willing to help him through some hard times, and take some big doses of responsibility yourself, then I would say go for it, if not then stay away or you could end up making things more difficult for him.
Best of luck. -- Oh, and to answer your question, I think that he is into you, which is another reason you need to be so careful here.
Thank you so much, I think you are right in most things. Today he brought me flowers and took me on a date. He told me he liked me way back and that he thought I only wanted to be his friend. I'm really happy now and hopefully this works out,risks are part of life! - 9 months ago
Ask him. as much as you are hoping for a 'yes', be just as prepared for a different answer. It's not likely that he'll give you a straight 'no', but anything other than a 'yes' is probably as good as a 'no'. Just my 2 cents.
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What is your favorite outfit for a night out with friends?
Band t-shirt, jeans, and my chucks. OR my neon yellow, orange, or pink skinny jeans, a graphic t, furr jacket, and some loud accessories.
How do you style your hair and do your make-up?
I use MAC and Sephora makeup. I use eyeliner, mascara, blah, blah, blah.. I don't need foundation or base; I use powder. I use bright colors (usually three) for my eyes. My hair is shorter on top and longer on the bottom (no not a mullit), I spike it up everyday.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 9 months ago
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