Hey guys - wondering what catches your eye first when you see a girl? Is it her smile? Her outfit? What she says? What makes one girl stand out among many?
A guy looks first at a womans body. He has her sized up but there is no complicating rating system in our heads, it's basically hot cool or ugly. But if a girl is at least cool, he goes and talks to her then if he agrees with you and/or likes your personality then he might start liking you. It's that simple. But I didn't include all the little details. Body type is a factor, some guys like skinny some guys like fat. Hope I answered your question.
Probably, yes, it is her smile. But we are subconsciously processing everything else about you - your clothing and what it says about your sense of style, your priorities, your philosophy, your politics. The way you move and talk to people. How do you look at people?
It is amazing the volume of information we are constantly advertising about ourselves, and it only takes half a brain and a good guess to figure out, at least in part, what people are about and what matters to them.
I mean, what if he doesn't act shy and is acting perfectly normal, talking to you but just not making eye contact for a long time? Then when he does,...
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Dinner at some where like TGI Fridays or Buffalo Wild Wings. A pair of my aberbrcombie jeans and maybe a slim t-shirt or dress shirt from express. With so Nike Air Max or dress shoes. Maybe a invite to the house to watch a movie if night a hug or kiss. But always tell them to call me if they have to drive 40 mins or more so to see if they got home ok.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
What I do for fun. What kind of job I got and what I do day to day. And some of my important goals in life.