I recently started getting to know a guy I work with. About 2 weeks ago we were working together and he was telling me about a movie he wanted to see that was coming out in a little over a week, but was trying to find someone to go see it with. I told him I was interested in seeing it, and he said he would get back to me about a movie time. Sure enough, a week-ish later he got back to me and asked if I was still interested in seeing it, and we made plans to go see the movie. Here's what happened the night we went out: he showed up a couple minutes early to meet up with me, he opened the car door for me (twice), we paid for our own tickets (but he paid for the snacks), and then he not only walked me back to my dorm, but followed me inside and walked me to my room (we then chatted for about 15-ish minutes before saying goodnight). We worked together again the next day, and he asked if I wanted to watch a movie with him after we both got off. We did, and we talked for almost an hour afterwards before I had to leave. He's also talked about watching other movies with me sometime. The next night, I went to his room to give him some cookies I had baked, and he was getting ready to leave when I arrived. I walked out of his dorm with him, and he went slightly out of his way to walk me back to my dorm before going to work on a project (btw, our dorms are about 100 yards apart). The next day we happened to bump into each other in a hallway, and he told me that he thought my cookies were amazing. After we went our separate ways, I saw him after I got out of class (he was waiting for his class to start). We talked for a bit, and then I asked him if we wanted to go get some pizza later this week and maybe watch a movie. He agreed to it, and I said I would call with a time to meet up. Later that day, he called me around 5 pm to ask if I wanted to go get some dinner with him. Also, when we first started talking to each other 2 weeks ago, our interactions were somewhat casual. Over the last couple of days, he's started hugging me more often (not obsessively, just when we say hello and goodbye), and I remember when we went out to go see a movie (the same one I talked about earlier), he seemed to hesitate hugging me until I moved toward him. Is he interested in me, or am I over analyzing things?
What it is with girls and their guys doing everything right for them? At times guys are only after sex, or they are just not into you and you complain about it. But now that it seems like you found your pair you are still questioning it? I thought I understood women to a certain extent but you must be from the deep South Venus, a region I am not really familiar with. I think your answer is in your last sentence.
I wouldn't say I'm questioning it, if anything I would like for things to work out. All I'm asking is if these are good signs, because in the past I have interpreted things some guys have done as them being interested, when in reality they weren't. - 10 months ago
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In light of your past experiences, where you might have jumped off too fast, I would suggest you keep what you are doing right now. Nothing too much, or too less. Not faster or slower. The more natural things evolve, the better. - 10 months ago
If what you said is true, I would say he likes you. Guys don't go out of their way to open doors and walk you home if they just want to be friends. I have a lot of guy friends, and none of them have ever opened a door for me. You are not over analyzing the situation. He must like you, by the way making him cookies is a good idea since most guys love good food. Good luck!
I definitely think that he's interested. Some guys have hard times showing their feelings. That's why he hesitated to hug you. But he's a good guy. For the little things that he does for you. So I feel he is trying to get to know you. And he wants to take his time. He is comfortable with you. So be yourself and keep him interested. Make him feel lucky and special.
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