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This guys stares me down during our meetings, is it because he thinks I'm cute?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 2 months ago
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So I have a slight crush of the president this one club on campus. Its a small club of about 10 people in it. However, when he addresses the club he stares directly at me to the point where I feel uncomfortable with the amount of eye contact he's making with me. There is other people in the room, but he talks like he's addressing me. Does he do this because he thinks I'm cute?

Update: He's actually a really nice guy, it just that when he makes eye contact with me he holds it for too long then realizes & looks at a few other people and then returns looking back 2 me. I only I feel uncomfortable is because he holds eye contact 4 2 long    2 months ago

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RoidRager
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RoidRager (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
Sometimes when your speaking in front of an audience it makes it easier if you pick someone out that looks "inviting" and "friendly". You might be that person for him.

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He might just have a crush on you too. Why don't you spark up a friendly conversation just to see what his reactions are. After a few 1 on 1 conversations you should be able to tell if he's interested in you or not.
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good-looking-geek
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good-looking-geek (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
He is checking you out for sure.
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coolguy93939
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coolguy93939 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago

if it bothers you give
him the what the f*** you
lookin at look. a mean mug
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Lostwithouther (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
You should let him know this. If you aren't returning the eye contact there is more interest on his part than yours. I know I had prolonged contact with my crush but it was because it was our way of saying we need to talk. He could also do it because you are easy on the eyes and make him relaxed he could be nervous speaking. But if you even have a slight crush on him let him know or you can make a joke out of it. Just talk with him and see how it goes.
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Atomizer (Age:30 to 35)      When: 2 months ago
It's possible that he thinks you're cute. If he thinks so, I'd expect him to show it in other ways, too, such as flirting, going out of his way to talk to you one-on-one, getting nervous around you, or so on.

It's also possible that you're the most responsive of all the people in the audience, or that he tends to lock on one audience member (I've done that many times during public speaking).

Eye contact is two ways. When you start feeling uncomfortable simply look away from him. Or look away a few moments after you make eye contact.
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Lumn3 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
If he's making you feel uncomfortable I doubt that's the guy you want to be crushing on.
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pwl0lwp (Age:36 to 45)      When: 2 months ago
he could be checking you out, yes, but how does he act when he's not addressing the club?
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Answerer He might just be checking out your reaction, or he might actually be trying to put you down: depends on what he's saying & the rest of the context. - 2 months ago

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Hercules (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
There's no reason to think it's because he specifically thinks you're cute, but I would definitely say at the very least he's interested in you somehow.
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
It sounds a bit weird tbh do you know for definite its only you he looks at?
If so then I wouldn't crush on him if he is already making you feel uncomfortable especially if you forget yourself in a moment of weakness and it develops, it could potentially get very dodgy
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