I'm not socially challenged, I'm not ugly, I'm not stupid. Talking to women is no problem for me. However, when me and a certain female are talking for a few days/weeks this one question is brought up and it is something I dread. You know how in those late night convos where you are getting to know the other person and all that fun stuff. Well when a girl asks me how many girls I have slept with, I freeze. No it isn't because I am a virgin, I am 19 years old and I have easily slept with 20 something girls. damn those nights drinking. When asked, I usually show a little hesitation and then I answer honestly following with "But I get tested regularly, and I haven't been sexually active because I'm not proud of my number, which is true, but every now and again is rises. once again damn those drunk nights. What SHOULD my response be? Should I lie like everyone else nd be like "ohhh 4"?
No, should be completely honest with her. Sure having been with twenty girls may be a turn off to some women but.its 2008! More and more people are having casual sexual relations with people esp during drinking. Its okay and its nothing to be shame of. Shit happens. If you get tested regular then the girl your with should be okay with it. However , this could mean to her that sex is just sex for you. A chance to get off. When in reality most girls want it to be ebcause you love him, care aboutthem, and what to be intimate with them.Having been with twenty girls this could show a girl that sex is just harmless fun in your eyes.
No lying is BAD. If where you are from is like where I am from it is like six degrees of seperation. Everyone knows somebody's brother who knows so-and-so's sister. Therefore anybody where I am from lies they are bound to get caught. Basically its a small world and you never know when you can get caught in your lies and ruin what could be something good because of it. The truth always prevails in my opinion.
it is one of those questions where it does not matter WHAT you say because. weather or not a guy has slepth with girls I don't believe it. like if he says he slept with 20 . I laugh or if he says he slept with noone. I laugh so basically just tell her it doesn't matter or you are not comfortable sharing it not everyone is a virgin. no two people are alike. but the truth will eventully come out and you don't want to seem like a player for sleeping with 20 girls. make sure sex is not a priority if you relle like the girl and be honest.get checked for stds and shit thats nasty dont give a girl an STD
Why don't you re-read my question.. - More than a year ago
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No. you shouldn't lie. you should say the truth always. if ur not comfortable saying what you did tell them that when you get to know her more then you can tell her, and tell her she does not have to tell you either. - More than a year ago
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if you lie- she will know! and then your numbers won't go up any higher plus sometimes it gets a girl excited to know that her man knows what he's doing in bed
no, you should be honest, and hopefully you are being honest about getting tested for STD's. Tell the girl the truth. If she is opened minded, she should not be put off by this. Honestly, girls don't really care about the number, what they are REALLY concerned about is if you have a potential for cheating on them. Tell them you are not proud of the number, but you wanted to be honest with them. That in itself speaks a lot for you. Kudos for being so honest though! Communication and honesty are so important, and girls really do appreciate those things.and that builds trust. If the girl is put off by your 'number' then she probably isn't the right girl for you.
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