Is there a way to ask a girl out so that she calls you back?

compliment her, notice something individual about her ~ her top, hair, what's she's drinking.

Also I would say in a bar or club don't do it when drunk. And don't make it sound like you have asked every other girl in the bar/club for their number before you made your way round to her (had that before, its annoying and I wouldn't talk to you)

DONT CALL for 4 days. we love to be chased and hate waiting for you to call. so 4 days, you give us time to think and wonder if you will call. but also, if you call the next day you might look desperate. keep the conversation light and short to keep her guessing. hey, what's going on. sorry I haven't gotten back to yo sooner. been tied up at work. me and some of the guys are going to . was wondering if you would want to join. if she says no say ok. maybe next time. maybe say something witty. talk for a few minutes. then say.well sorry to cut this short, but I gotta get going. got some things to take care of. ill talk to you later. bye.


be energetic and confident. us girls sense these things. play it like its not a big deal she said no. wait a few days and try again. don't over do it. if you keep it light and short she'll be guessing and wondering. she might even call you. could depend on age too tho.
good luck to you!

don't call straight away.
when you get her number straight away you have the option to telling her you're going to text message her to check if she got home safe ( don't do this if you're worried that you're going to come off as overbaring)

send a text message that night asking if she got home safely and that it was very nice to meet her. (nothing more) unless you wanna say "i'd like to get to knwo you better"
if she replies then good, if she does't then what ever

in a couple of days if the contact between you two is still good. and she hasn't contacted you already maybe a weeks time. ask if she's going out again tonight.

keep it on text till you think she's ready to be spoken to . calling can sometimes be intrusive

if you get to this point where you're at a friendly contact within a week you're good.

sometimes it takes a month to come into calling terms with a person, you have to be pretty comfortable with each other and YOU as a man have to know her personality by then eg. out going, talkative, laid back, introvert. and other descriptive words'.

girls can tell if you're looking for a long term relationship or a short one by what you say and how you behave and they will either reject you if you're interests don't clash with theirs, good look if you're looking for the short term relationship . some girls are out there for a rebound. others not. just be nice.

"True measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good"- anon

maybe when you call her if she does't answer leave this sexy and intriging voice message that would make her want to call you back. but the tip here is to not call so often . if she call she calls and if she doesn't move on. And a little secret as girls we don't really care about norrmal stuff. ask us about us and what we have on and how it looks o us. things that interest us and makes us smile. a little giggle here and there gets you along way.

In my experience, about half the time a girl gives me her number she's blowing me off but doesn't want to say "no" to my face.

I think the others have offered good advice, but I have one more suggestion:
-When a girl gives you her number, also ask WHEN you can call to talk personally -- schedule a "date" to talk. Try to get a specific time from her, such as "Monday between 4 and 6 p.m." If you can get a specific time, call her then. If she doesn't answer, leave a short message reminding her about the "date." Do not call her back again. If the girl says "call me anytime" tell her you're too busy and need to know when she'll answer the phone. Say it in a funny, joking way, but press her for a specific time. If she says "call me any time" even after you press her for a time, she's more likely to blow you off.

This method has worked for me in many cases, and I think it makes a guy look like less of a pushover.

Good luck!

It's about the chase my friend. Say you go out to a bar friday night, meet a girl, cop her number. Don't call or txt her for at least a day and a half 2 days. if she doesn't answer, f*** it. If she does just say hey its -- from the bar the other night, I'm kinda busy at the moment but I wanted to see if maybe you wanted to go out one night. keep it short and sweet. tell her you'll call her later at a specific time so you guys can make plans. make sure you call her exactly when you say you will. women like like when men are punctual. but they are incapable of that themselves. don't hate ladies who are reading this, you girls love to be late.