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Am I being a tease?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 11 months ago
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Theres this guy I really like and we flirt all the time and text each other pretty much all day. I want to tell him I like him becaus I know he feels the same about me too but there's no point because if he does ask me out I'm going to say no.
not because I don't want to but because I'm not allowed to date till I'm older and I don't want to lie to my parents about him.
am I kind of a tease?


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martyfellow
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martyfellow      When: 10 months ago
No...not really. If he hasn't asked you out, he's either figured out you aren't available, or he is also blocked by family or other situations..or if course he might already be taken!

So go ahead and flirt. It's good for you!
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l-hedoniste
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l-hedoniste      When: 11 months ago
No. Let him know what the deal is, and try to spend quality time with him.

Try a couple un-dates. Going to the library? A concert? Shopping? Group dates? Activities? Volunteer work?

If you're motivated, I bet you can have at least half a dating life with him, as long as you don't call it dating.
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Romanticguy1988
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Romanticguy1988      When: 11 months ago
:( That really sucks for that guy. . . You need to talk to him and tell everything straight. . This will eventually eat you both from inside. Mha :D Once again I agree with ''thelittlethings'' (previous posts). That's sounds like a only way to deal with this.
It is not my business and sorry for being curious, but I can't understand why you can't date any guys? Well I mean. . . It shows that you are 18 - 24. . Think it's bit not fair that you can't date and fall in love or feel wanted. You aren't such a child anymore.
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Question Asker Idk why it says 18-24 I put I'm only 15 - 11 months ago
Answerer Oh ok :P Explains everything then.
Ques your parents are just being protective and that is a good thing.
Do whatever you feel to be right. Follow your heart <3 - 11 months ago

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Limey      When: 11 months ago
Your parents are idiots. Why are they stopping you from dating? You're at least 18, and are therefore a fully grown woman. You should be allowed to make your own decision regarding your social life. Therefore I feel that because your parents behaviour is wrong, that you are morally allowed to lie to them. i.e. date behind their back.

But to answer your question.
am I kind of a tease?
yes, but at your age, you are starting to learn the social rules and skill of dating. Flirting being one of them. If you talked to every guy in a distant, none flirty way you wouldn't learn how to flirt, then when you were older and did start to date, youd look foolish.
So you (and ever woman ever) are a tease, but you're allowed to be.

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Question Asker Im only 15 haha I don't know why it says 18-24 - 11 months ago
 

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liiLo
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liiLo      When: 11 months ago
no. your not. a tease is something wayyyyyy different. you just can't go out with the dude. being a tease is when you flirt with him and stuff, but then IF he would ask you out, you'll say no. or keep him wanting more. you know.
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vmw2008
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vmw2008      When: 11 months ago
No you're not a tease. A lot of parents have rules for their daughters around that age. I know mine did! Maybe you could suggest him coming over for dinner. (Sometimes parents are more comfortable if you're together when they're close by). If things go well I'm sure they'll loosen up to some movies and things. The main thing is to prove you can be trusted and parents can be persuaded if you "ease" them into the process lol
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thelittlethings
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thelittlethings      When: 11 months ago
What if you don't go out on dates and things with him. Do you see him at school or what? When you are too young to date you can have a boyfriend and only see him at school. That's how we had to do it and it worked just fine. Let him know you want to be together but you can't go on dates until you are a certain age and let him know how long he'd have to wait to take you out. My ex and I went on our first date on our one year anniversary. Also if you really like this guy and start seeing him and introduce him to your parents and they like him they may let you go hang out with him if he is someone they trust.
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