Girls say they like to be chased by guys. but guys don't like the chase because some girls are leading guys on?

if a girl is giving you mixed signals - like sometimes she does flirt with you, then most likely she is interested but doesn't want to seem desperate. and if you ask a girl out [which I recommend guys do more to girls they like] and if she at least hints that she's willing to go out sometime, then most likely she's interested too. focus more on how girls look at you then what they necessarily say to you to tell. like see if they smile at you [when you talk to them] or not and if they seem to like being around you then that's a good sign too. and if a girl does end up leading you on then just remember that it was her fault and move on. girls aren't the only ones to lead members of the opposite sex on too.

I wish I had the asnwer for you.. myself have never been chased, I tend to be quite forward but guys don't like that either, so its a bit like a magnet with two negative ends isn't it. I think girls that are too hard to get are probably a bit stuck up and maybe even high maintenance, I think its pretty important to see if you can establish a friendship first, and you will know if there is interest.

Ok we love when guys chase us, signs that we are interested, we return texts flirt back. We smile a lot and when we see you we smile and say something cute. I don't act like I am super excited to see the guy though, just to show you are not desperate but I will give a smile and a look. IF I am not interested but I still enjoy the chase lol my texts won't be as flirty I will usually just respond with lol , want text as much or text first. and when I see the guy I just act like they are one of my guy friends say hey and go along with my day. It is actually hard to just say I don't like you to a guy who is trying to get with you so it looks like we are leading you on but we are not, you just have to read the signs. I personally can never straight out tell a guy I don't like you and I feel bad if ignore their texts. , so allot of people say I am a tease or lead guys on because of that.

All girls love the chase because it's flattering.
They'll never tell you straight up that they don't actually like you. Dumb, I know.
I guess a sign to look out for is if they never or rarely initiate conversations, but just go along with the ones you start up.

im with cheer on this one. you should give her best answer.

They DON'T tell you that they're not interested.

And that's coming from the mouths of women that I've asked this same question to.