Is it okay to be such good friends with him?

walk away I'm so sorry to say that honest. I had something close to this happen to me lately.
HE should be spending all htis time and engery on fixing there troubles and not spending all this time with you. Like you said you wouldn't like it if it was happing to you right? I belive he might be tring to stay close to you just incase it don't work with his woman. A fall back. I stll talk to my friend but nothing like we use to and nothng sexal. Cos all I ever wanted was for to her be happy no matter what and if that mean getting back with her husban then I was all for it. "there still having trouble" but still togather. anyway good luck I'm sure you'll do the right thing.

It is not ok. Your relationship, though not physical is emotional and intimate and not appropriate for someone you are not "involved" with. You said you wouldn't want your boyfriend to do the same with another person. That should tell you enough. This happened to me. I found out about it and nearly left the one I loved over it. It hurt real bad emotionally to hear she talked to him about me.

Yes its ok to be such good friends with him even tho he has a girlfriend, he probably feels more comfortable telling you things then his girlfriend because maybe he feels she is going to judge him. But with you its a different story.

I am in the same situation as you too. I don't see anything wrong being a good friend with him. Just as long you guy keep it platonic and doesn't cross the friendship boundary then you shouldn't have anything to worry about. My guy friend and I we talk a lot and we spend lot of hours on the phone and email but I've never pry into his business or about his relationship. We know our boundary and we stick to it.

Wow I'm in like the same situation haha. It's really hard for me though because we both liked each other, but then he got a girlfriend so now we just have to be friends, and obviously I still like him. :/
But anyway, I don't really see anything wrong with it, I mean neither of you are making any moves on each other or crossing any lines. If you really enjoy being friends with him, then why give it up? I think a good friendship shouldn't be sacrificed just because one of you is in a relationship.