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How do I approach a shy girl without making a fool of myself?

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atomicfrog (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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Any advice would be helpful. I'm looking at you when I say that, girls.


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ilaughwaytoomuch
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ilaughwaytoomuch      When: 6 months ago
I would say maybe say something funny tell a stupid joke...That's what I do when I talk to shy people I mean I'm shy myself but it would make me feel more comfortable and then you will make her laugh (most of the time) then just ask her how she is go where it goes...Maybe compliment her ( I like Ur shirt etc...) the jokes work ha trust me I've used it on guys I liked before and it's a good ice breaker makes the environment more laid back...Hope this helps...This might have just worked for me so...
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lovablelaureng
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lovablelaureng      When: 6 months ago
just go up to her and talk to her cause I'm really shy and its better for me when guys come up to me and it makes me feel more comfortable
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likeastar-6
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likeastar-6      When: 10 months ago
Just try to be yourself, don't try to impress her. She will be more comfortable if you are comfortable, and just go with the flow, if you really like her then you will know what to say :)
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adorkabletmtm
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adorkabletmtm      When: 11 months ago
Don't scare her.
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nobodygirl
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nobodygirl      When: More than a year ago
Always smile at her, have open body language, act in a way that would make her comfortable with you. Talk to her at every chance you get, even if it's just to say hi, but don't act like she has to talk back more than she's comfortable with.

Also, you should make jokes a lot around her, be confident in yourself, be exciting. Most shy girls love exciting guys.

Basically, try your best to be exciting but not make her uncomfortable.
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CRAZYxREBEL
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CRAZYxREBEL      When: More than a year ago
Make sure she is comfortable when you talk to her. Ask her about something you know she likes; that is bound to get her to talk to you.
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flowerbeauty21
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flowerbeauty21      When: More than a year ago
Hmm... I am a very shy girl when it comes to boys. If she's shy she won't say anything mean.. I can tell you that.. she'll be very polite.. just come up to her and speak with her!! Be nice to her.. main important thing.. NICE!!! I like guys who are nice.. (*i am also a very very shy girl and if you approach me in a horrid way I won't even bother talking to you) she's probably like me. So be nice! And have fun! Say something funny to her.
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ALWAYSclassy
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ALWAYSclassy      When: More than a year ago
As long as you break the ice, things will be fine.

as a shy girl, that's one thing I really want. if a guy breaks the ice and talks to me then I really like that b/c I probably wanted to talk to him but was just too shy to do it myself.
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littlesenorita
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littlesenorita      When: More than a year ago
Driven gave a good answer. Also- maybe you should make a fool of yourself. Did you ever think of that? Maybe she's shy because she's worried about making a fool of herself. Most girls understand that it takes balls to talk to them. I think you'll get points for showing you don't give a damn. You want her, take her. I like a guy who doesn't care what other people think, who takes charge and doesn't just follow the crowd, and who knows how to be silly every once in a while ;) Good luck
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oliveyouolivia
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oliveyouolivia      When: 7 months ago
1 be a true gentel men towerds her I have a crush on a really shy girl to and she opens up to me when I'm nice and cofedent but I still have truble so I know how you feel
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Evilbegining
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Evilbegining      When: More than a year ago
The key to shy girls is confidence.

If you show confidence in yourself, in your ability to communicate and allow them to feel comfortable around you then you will open them up within a few minutes like you cannot imagine. The hard part is getting up the courage to TRY!
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drivenhollow21
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drivenhollow21      When: More than a year ago
I've asked this question and the best way I gathered through use is to just talk to her and ask her about herself, give subtle hints but don't flirt, and if you do leave it small. And if she is interested her shyness towards you will go. Then just keep talking to her.
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