I met this guy through a friend. He's really cute, sweet, nice, and has great moral values and beliefs. After meeting him, he had this facebook status that said is "wanting this to happen now but knows it's too soon." Then he invited me to listen to his band play. Problem though, he's 3 years younger than me. He's 18 and I'm 21. He just graduated high school last year. I really want to get to know him better, but I'm afraid I'll come off desperate if I try and pursue him. He also is really respectable when it comes to dating. My friend says he's waiting til' marriage to have sex, while I'm not a virgin. Do guys like that see girls who try to pursue them right away as a turnoff? He's also really shy too, but seems to have a lot of girls who like him. I don't want to come off as a creeper, but I really like him. Should I pursue him or just back off? My friend thinks it would be tacky and that I should move on, but how can I when he has all the characteristics I'm looking for?
i went out wit a girl 2 years older its no prob atg all trust me but if he's a virgin and wants to wait till marrige dont break that i feel the same way and temtation sux
the question here is are you willing to marry him?where do you c this relationship going? considering his moral values which I respect by the way. I also think he's still young to decide not having sex until marriage(except if it's religious reasons)
Well I don't see any problems, if you both like each other then age isn't an issue. In china there was an 18 year old man married to a 56 year old, and they were both loyal. While it is odd to have that large of a difference I don't think love has an age limit.
About the sex thing, I wouldn't try to pressure him. I am a virgin until I am in love with somebody. I once dated a girl and after about a month she started pressuring me, our relationship ended badly.
As long as you don't pressure him into anything I think you should go for it.
It's at the outside edge of acceptable, because people can grow up a lot in those 3 years. But I wouldn't say no strictly because of the age difference.
No, if you feel that he is mature enough for you and you like what type of person he is then you should go for it. And if he doesn't mind the age difference then you should have no problem. Guys don't really care for the age differences like girls does. The most important things are his maturity level and his communication level.
How old does he act? Screw chronological numbers determining age. If he acts old enough to be with you then who cares how old he really is? Relationships are about compatibility. Do you have fun together? Do you connect? You say he has all that you are looking for, are you really going to give it up because of age? Plus it's only 3 years, that's not that big of a difference. Yeah, he is young and he might change but so could you. It's a risk you take with any relationship no matter the age and no matter the age difference. I say go for it.
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