I went to a party the other day and no it wasn't with my guy friends it was actually a lady friend who was throwing the party and I knew like four people there. Well instead of going well this sucks and sulking in the corner I mingled and well I was talking to my lady friend she introduced me to her friend and then my friend goes you can't have her, and I said why not she's cute and my friend says because your corrupt, and she doesn't want me to corrupt her. Now before anyone goes dude your friend likes you, no she really doesn't well not like that anyways and I don't like her like that either.
So then my friend goes see that girl over there she's cute why don't you go talk to her? How many of you would have actually talked to the girl?
So I said will do and well I walked right up to her and just struck up a conversation and talked for a bit met her friends and ended up getting her number. She was about to leave and so I said how about we go to dinner next weekend, she said yes and then I got her number.
And even after she left I met another girl and started to talk to her and same thing when she was about to leave I got her number. That's two women at the same party getting both number within an hour of each other. So if I can do that then anyone can do it, it's not rocket science, so what's the problem guys what are you afraid of? I see it all the time with my friends at the bar or party we notice a hot chick and no one make a move and so I go ok you just lost your chance with her, because if you don't talk to her I will. And they don't talk to her they go ok go for it dude and well I do, so why do you give up that chance to possibly get a number, get a date, or even get laid that night?
My boyfriend has the same problem. He doesn't even talk to me and we almost broke up because of it. It feels like they don't like you. But that's not always the truth. Guys should just go for it and talk to girls even if its something the girl doesnot really enjoy atleats they rent getting silence...which we hate
I agree I think more guys should just go for it. Even if she doesn't want to talk its better than waiting and wondering what could have been. If you want to talk to someone just do it. What do you have to lose?
It's sad but true. For some reason, guys aren't dating as much. (at least the guys in the 18-25 range that I hang out with). The sweet-but-shy types sit in their rooms playing video games with each other and bemoan their lack of love-lives, instead of dating. So usually the only guys who will actually approach me as more than a friend or ask me out are the bad boy player types, or the superstar football players. Problem is, I'd rather have a wider selection to choose from.
I've been told that guys will often assume that a girl is already "taken" or "out of their league" and therefore they just don't approach her. Maybe that's why I'm single yet again...
To all guys out there--we don't bite! Please don't be afraid of us!
Maybe they think you're ugly or not pretty enough? - 9 months ago
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So you automatically think she will not like you right off the bat? How do you know how do you know she wasn't waiting for you to talk to her and well if you don't you lost your chance. Why do you think she's outta my league, reverse it say I can do way better than her now she has to convince me to like her, I'll choose if I want to give her the time of day. - 9 months ago
Wow you just described me pretty spot on. I play too many video games and just kind of hang out in my room and I'm not the most social guy. I do ballroom dance which does get me out there a little bit. And yes... I do often assume a girl is taken or wouldn't want to dance with me or talk to me or whatever. I do think it is like anything else though, practice makes perfect. But that is an issue since I miss practice or didn't show up for it haha - 9 months ago
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I hope no one thinks I'm condemning video games! haha - 9 months ago
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You go ballroom dancing and you don't know if a girl wants to dance with you, come on man you knowhow to dance your foot should be in the door right there. If she is taken so what get to know her better and she will say well I do have some single friends she could introduce you to you. But sitting at home playing video games is not the way to get a gf. - 9 months ago
it doesn't make sense that she said you could have the one that you got the number from, but that you couldn't have the other because you were "corrupt" her logic doesn't make sense... and where does she come off saying you're corrupt? what have you done to become a bad file (haha) little computer humor there
she probably just knew that the girl you couldn't have already had a bf, but still introduced you to her, just to make a new friend etc...
Her logic does make sense she thinks I am a slut, just because I have slept with lots of girls and the girl didn't have a boyfriend I asked her she said no, she was her friend and didn't want me to just f*** her and leave her, so therefore she didn't want me get her number - 6 months ago
I just started a new topic that asks more about this.
Conversations with new people are usually a huge let down. Many people don't seem smart or responsible or nice, and so I often come out of female conversations thinking "Wow what a great waste of my life."
The more you like to talk about common things, the more you'll like to talk to people in general.
We all want love to come to us but few people want love enough to go for it, so people do what's best for them or trick themselves into thinking they are.
Exactly I really am not the most confident guy so talking to women is really hard for me because I worry that she won't think I am worth her time and stuff. - 10 months ago
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