Ok, this cute guy has a girlfriend, but he's always coming on to me. He flirts with me like crazy, always comes up behind me and kisses my neck, tries to hold my hand, texts me randomly to ask what I'm up to and tell me he's "thinking about me." He told me he likes me a lot. I always remind him that he has a girlfriend (and for that reason, I pull away from him.) But he tells me that they haven't been going out that long, and that the fact that he has a girlfriend doesn't mean he can't "get to know me more" and that we can't "go to the movies or out to eat sometime."
But hanging out as friends is obviously NOT what he wants.
He obviously doesn't really value his relationship that much. I've repeatedly reminded him that he has a girlfriend and that it would look bad even if we just "hung out and went to the movies or whatever", but he doesn't seem to care. So if he obviously doesn't care that much about his relationship, do I really need to? I mean, is that really my problem? Sorry if that sounds harsh...lol!
What a dick! If it was a matter of him not being that interested in her but really liking you, he'd dump her for you. Instead, he's being scandalous and purposely going behind her back. Kissing you on the neck and things like that? This guy is just a piece of shit with no respect for girls. Cute on the outside, ugly as hell on the inside. You're setting yourself up for a bad time if you keep letting this go on, because eventually he'll get you to give in.
What an ass. You need to tell him that if he wants to "get to know you better" he has to be honest with his girlfriend and end that relationship first. No its not really your problem, but you don't want to be that girl. And just remember, if he's doing this to his gf, what makes you think he couldn't do the same thing to you if you were dating him. just be careful !
All I can say is that if you ever did have a relationship with this guy he will definitely do the same thing with another girl. I've dated this kind of guy. They'll promise you the world but they're all talk. If he wants to be with you so bad then why is he even bothering staying in a relationship with this other girl when he could have you? Tell him to go away. Ignore him. He's not worth your time.
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