There is this guy that I like, and I have a feeling that he likes me, too. He always is saying "hi" to me, gives me these great hugs. Sneaking up behind me to hug me. I talk to him a lot more now, considering the fact that I've had a crush on him for quite sometime now, and he always talks about how much he misses me when I miss school and coome the next day. Yesterday, he came behind me and picked me up and I was taken aback by that because I don't really see him do that to anyone else...not that I know of. I feel he might have some kind of crush on me. I was thinking to tell him in person but I want to know if facebook would be a better choice for privacy and someone who can be kind of shy.
In my opinion, asking on Facebook would not be a good choice. I am quite shy as well, so I completely understand why you would want to. In fact, probably most everyone can understand why you would want to use online communication.
Being nervous or shy about talking to someone about such matters is completely normal. However, when you are face to face with someone, they can see your sincerity and the tone of the question, whatever that may be. He might be more receptive in person.
He might also see your shyness while talking to him. This is a big signal to him that you are pushing yourself to talk, and therefore the answer must matter to you. When communicating through messages/emails/etc, the discussion could appear to take on the same tone as an email to a teacher asking about an assignment (not nearly as important : D ). Through your presence with another person, you can show them that they matter and you value their input and presence.
Good luck with whatever medium you choose; everyone communicates differently.
PS: Maybe you could sneak up behind him and pick him up, since that seems to be how he communicates : )
Damn all I can say is that this is some great advice and I totally agree with this guy, I'm still wondering why you chose to go anonymous on it haha but yeah overall I'd say even if it takes time and effort he will appreciate it for sure - 9 months ago
always ask in person when possible, if you absolutely cant, you can, but just know that every time you want to ask/tell him something you'll have to write out, since you didn't initially ask him in person
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