Alright all you committed women, what's going on? There's four girls that I know of that are very attractive, and I treat them like eye candy. The problem is they are obvious in the way they've flirted with me. I later found out that they were engaged, married, or have a boyfriend. The latest one is the gal in the picture with me. She was persistent in trading phone numbers and I finally gave in, then a few days ago she mentions her boyfriend and tells me that I should BEHAVE.
Last month, a married woman asked me to carpool with her and I don't know her well enough to consider her as a friend.
A year ago, an engaged 23 year old woman, flirted with me!
hmm it seems like the girls like you.. period.. or are attracted to you.. at least in the case of the chick with the boyfriend.. for the married ones.. either they like flirting and you are eye candy to them.. or they are just settling with the men in their lives.. thus share an attraction to you .. as long as you can't reject them etc. because they are already committed. I think that's the case with the chick in pic with you.. she would probably like you.. if one day you were to want to be her boyfriend.. or what not.. but this way.. she can flirt etc. and be not shy.. with out you thinking "yeh I def. can score.. or she's a loser.. or I'm not interested etc" cause she has a boyfriend.. I mean I'm not too sure.. but around your age.. if these women are around your age they are probably trying to settle down quick.. and that doesn't really mean they are 100% satisfied.. or maybe they are and since they are 100% confident like to treat you like eye candy.. from the pic you look hot! id do you lolol (another girl with a boyfriend, "hitting on u".
I appreciate your answer. I think you are correct. She is probably flirting with me to keep her options open. Although she has a boyfriend, she is unsure of her relationship. Of course, she may just want booty calls. Thanks for your answer. - 8 months ago
Because they like flirting lol. That's the simple answer. They enjoy flirting and see it as a bit of harmless fun. There are some women that would flirt with intent (to cheat) but most have no intention of cheating. Personally, when I'm in a relationship I don't flirt out of respect to my boyfriend.
I'm in the same situation. I've learned that women like having options. They hate being so weak and so connected to one guy. They want to know that if it doesn't work with the guy their with that they're not so vulnerable its a confidence boost if you respond back and show a lot of interest. Let them push it as far as they want to go. But show class and that you recognize they're in a relationship. If married don't let it get beyond casual flirting... If she has a boyfrined she's just as single as any girl out there really and if she's flirting with you hard its likely she hasn't left her boyfriend yet because she's scared of being alone and not because she's really in love with him.
Thanks! I appreciate it. Yeah, I've flirted back and it's as far as it will go. There's no doubt that I'll let them push it as far as they want to take it. Anything coming from me would be too weird had it not been her intention. I've learned that lesson with a gal that I built a great friendship with and she gave me all the signs and indication that she was flirting and I crossed that line. I think it's safe to say that although I think that the line was initially crossed by her. Thanks! - 2 months ago
Just a few weeks into joining this site, I saw most of the questions posted are more to do on reading those invisible lines that people think might be flirting, and to top it all to make aggressive...
Let me start off by saying that attraction isn't a choice. If you meet a girl and you interact with a woman long enough for her to get an impression of you, and she doesn't find you attractive, then...
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Alright all you committed women, what's going on? There's four girls that I know of that are very attractive, and I treat them like eye candy. The...
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