Ok so I work with this girl who oh by the way has a boyfriend of 2 years that I am realizing I kinda of like her a bit more than a friend. But the issues at hand are being co-workers and her being in a relationship. Her relationship is not strong and twice in the last six months they have been close to breaking it off. She at times does not act like she has a boyfriend. As far as talking about other guys or even the way she dances with other guys. Mixed signals are given. Her and I get along real well and had an instant connection ever since she started working with me. I would get random text from her , and she would always keep up with me be it watching me or standing in my general area. But lately there seems to be a bit of distance between us. Not sure if it is from my side or hers or both. So what should my next move be? Go in for the kill and see what happens? Sit back and wait? Or tell her were I am at?
You need to back off. She has a boyfriend and you don't want to be that re-bound guy after the breakup, if there is even going to be one. Just stop it. Sorry, but wait until she is free first. Would you want her to do this to you if you were dating her. Your next move should be NOTHING!!
Okay her backing off is a bad sign. I would try and tell her where you are at if you really think you have a chance with her. Maybe she is backing off because her boyfriend and her are getting along better? I would also be careful because she flirts with everyone. Could it be that she is only flirting for attention, and has no interest in these other guys? I think that could be a strong possibility and something that you should observe, Does she pay extra attention to you that she dosen't with the other guys? Another possibility is that she got your vibe that you like her more than a friend and didn't feel the same way, thus backing off. Women usually have a sixth sense about guys being interested in us. So like I said, if you REALLY feel like there might be a chance then tell her. Otherwise I would sit back and wait.
There is nothing you can really do to start a real relationship with her until she ends it with her boyfriend. I would continue to keep close, and be her friend until you know what's happening with him. If and when they break up, then "go in for the kill,"
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