I've fallen for a guy I have worked with since October! It is definitely still in the "like" phase because I am not able to see him that often, I have no flippn' idea if he is interested, and YEAH! I would really like to get to know him better because what I do know of him I like (a lot of his sayings and mannerisms make me die on the inside with laughter and glee, he has always been really nice to me, he is a smart cookie, and soooo freakn' adorable!), but I always get really nervous (although I might seem calm on the outside) whenever I *try* to approach him about maybe hanging out outside of work!
In the couple months that I have worked at my job I have been asked out by another coworker (with whom I rejected as politely and professionally as possible) and SEVERELY flirted upon with other coworkers (I flirt back I guess because my personality is just like that). . . although who knows why this has all occurred because I'm a pretty large girl (although I guess pretty proportionate though?) I'm so not used to all this, BLEH!
I also have a bit of a fear that I might come off as such a huge loser-face to my crush! Often when I'm around him I feel like I'm acting annoying, stupid, weird, etc. and I'm so scared that I might be making myself horribly unattractive to him or something like that. When I first met him he was a pretty quiet guy, but he has opened up a lot . . . although sometimes when he is quiet around me acting strange or something I freak out and think I'm annoying him or bothering him . . . like I'm some pesky little girl floating around trying to grab his fancy . . . which I guess I am . . . LOL . . . but that is not the point!
The point is (after all that stuff up there) do you guys think I should approach him and say something like "Hey man! School is starting next week! We should hang out sometime while I'm in the area :D!" (my college is close to where he lives). Or I dunno, something like that? Or should I just keep doing whatever the heck I'm doing (mostly stewing over this and making myself all emo) and see if he approaches me?
If the second of those options, when do I know it is hopeless for me to keep waiting?! Is there a third option I'm missing?!?
Thanks so much for your patience in reading through all of that and a huge thank you in advance for your much needed thoughts and advice :)!
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