So I recently got out of a long/serious relationship. I have came out of it with very low self esteem too and I have started going out and meeting so many new people. both girls and guys tell me I'm beautiful but I don't see it. I would like to think that a guy wouldn't say it just to get somewhere with me like that so how can I tell if he is?
If he didn't think you were attractive he wouldn't be trying to get anywhere with you, I mean really guys arnt going to throw compliments if they don't see something attractive about you. They might give you one or two to be nice if they're not attracted but if you say "nooo that's not true" and try to deny it the guy will either back off if he's not into you or try to reinforce the idea if he is.
How to tell if he is trying to get somewhere with you? Well, if you meet someone new, and the first thing he says is, "Hi my name is... What is your name?" he isn't looking for anything that involves getting in your pants. He's being honest about himself and interested in you at the same time.
sometimes you can just generally tell if he's being sincere, if he's telling you with a relatively straight face that you're beautiful, he probably means it and wants to take you out on a date not just to get some
i know that when I made an apology to one of my friends, she knew I was being sincere because I had a relatively straight face on but at the same time, there was just a good aura around us, I could feel it
Even if a guy is telling you that you're beautiful just to "get some," that still means he thinks you're attractive. Guys only want to sleep with girls who they think look good. So if you get guys coming up to you, that means they think you're attractive whether they want sex or just a relationship..
I want a boy who will move the hair away from my eyes, and then kiss me. Who will hold my hand in line at the mall and make all the girls jealous. A pretty boy, but not so pretty that I feel awkward....
The few paragraphs before the section with the questions are just precursors to the 4 questions I ask/talk about in here. What I am getting at with all this, is why do girls like guys, and why do...
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