Conversation starters for online dating?

Try to be as spontaneous and random as you can. It draws attention and is fun to engage in conversationally.

Hmmmm...'hay sup' really bad idea. Good thing you're asking. There's many ways to do it, but you just have to remember to keep it unique....

Normally, What I do is read a profile of a female, then find something unique in that profile and then start from there...also, my subject line is never hi, or nice picture, or any of the cliches and I also like to relate to the profile.

For example, the general profiles you'll see are, i'm a fun, sweet, caring girl. If there is nothing more than that, but you like the profile pic, then I normally hit up the girl with a subject line of, 'are you a dance maniac?' or 'been parachuting lately?' or 'lacking details', etc...Then in the body I start with something about her pic, and then move on to something like....so I noticed you're a fun girl, when was the last time you jumped out of a plane, or whatever....Again, because there was not much in the profile, what you are aiming for is something that will catch her attention.

For the females that have long detail profile, then that's even easier. Find something you have in common. For example, girl says she is college doing a business major and let's say you're doing that...then msg her on that, but again, keep the subject line unique...Also, if they got a pic, notice something in the pic, like the clothing, or accessories, and make a comment on that...Matter of fact, that's also a great subject line to have---a comment on something that most guys won't notice on a pic, like earrings, hairstyle, etc.

The trick to online dating is to message away as much as possible because the more you practice, the more you get the hang of it as to what works and what doesn't.

I remember once I saw this girl's profile where she had these modeling pics of herself, always with her arms raised, exposing her armpits So my subject line was , lickable armpits, and I basically wrote one line saying..'i noticed you love to expose your armpits---are they available to be licked?' Girl messaged back saying she read my profile and found it interesting....honestly, I thought she would never reply, but man, if you don't try, you'll never know.....