there's this girl in one of my classes I like. We were in school with each other from about 3rd grade on but I really don't know anything about her. then she moved away in high school but ended up at the same college as me.(I haven't been carrying a torch for her all those years or anything) We've spoken maybe six times and only "hi" or "hows it going" in the halls. She's been in my group for classwork and whenever I make a joke she seems to laugh and we talk about some classes and teachers we don't like but beyond that not much. One day she seemed really excited to talk to me and other times she won't say anything to me. Like one day I was reading a book and she passed by without saying anything. We don't have any common friends or even friendly social acquaintances between us. My group and hers never mixed. I also might seem unapproachable as I'm smart and a little closed off and really reserved. I've had female friends tell me they thought I didn't like them when I considered them good friends. I've never been in a relationship and I find its getting difficult. This is the first girl I've liked in about 4 years. What should I do?
Considering what other girls have told you, I think it's almost a definate that she really doesn't know that you like her. I agree with lil-blu, you should ask her to chill. if that seems too much right away, start off just trying to talk to her more. if she walks past you without saying something, YOU say something. After class, start a conversation with her and walk with her to her dorm or next class. you could ask if she wants to study with you.** try to get her number, but when you do - ask with a reason, don't just be like "Hey, can I call you sometime?" it's too indefinate and easy for a girl to blow off. maybe ask her if she wants to meet up before class for coffee or something then ask for her number. **
The info between the astericks is a personal opinion. I know a lot of girls who respond to the random "can I have your number?" but I don't like it. I won't give it if asked this way.
She might feel that you don't like her in that way, and might feel that you like her only in a friendly way. You can always ask her if she wants to hang out. What kind of social aquaintances do you mean?
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