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Question on physical contact... Is this a bad thing? Weird flirtatious behavior?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 11 months ago
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I was talking to the girl that I like today... I think she might like me back too but its hard to say.

While we were talking she was running up to some other guys that she knew and she was just talking to them for a second. Then she playfully hit them and stuff, then she came back to talk to me however, she has never made physical contact with me. Yet she touches or playfully hits a lot of her other guy friends, even her closest long-time guy friends. She also considers me a good friend, but we haven't been real good friends for long.

Is it possible that she might feel uncomfortable doing that to me for some reason, if she does like me? Like would she only do that to her "buddies?" I've touched her a couple times in totally non-threatening ways, just on her shoulder or arm, and she didn't mind at all...

I hear all these signs that a girl might hit you or touch you if she is physically attracted to you, but could she also be nervous to do such a thing to a guy that she might actually like? It seems like the whole playful hits and touches could go either way to me (if you get what I'm saying)...

Thanks!


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twilightfan123
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twilightfan123      When: 11 months ago
Yes it is most definitely true a girl can be afraid or too shy to make contact with a guy, especially one she likes. I'm one of those girls by the way, and if she treats you differently from all the other guys, I would say that's a sign she likes you.
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brwneyedgirl      When: 11 months ago
for me, whether I touch a person or not depends on how long I know them or how much I am attracted to them.

if I've know a guy, whether I have feelings for him or not, for a long time... its more playful. when you're comfortable with someone half the time you don't even realize you touch them.
i would also touch a guys arm or whatever, brush by his shoulder, if I found him super attractive. but then again, I don't want to be just like any other girl to him.
so touching=comfortable with someone OR if you really like someone.

maybe she just doesn't know you that well yet, or is figuring out if she likes you.
i mean she DID come back and talk to YOU! : )
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EasyEC
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EasyEC      When: 11 months ago
If she's pretty, chances are that half her guy friends either currently or have previously wanted to get with her and tried to "work it from the inside." What may be more telling is for you to pay attention to the body language of the guys she's with. If you can tell they like her, she can probably tell much better. That will give you a clue as to how to read flirting from her physical contact, by the means in which she initiates or responds with physical contact.
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SpearMint      When: 11 months ago
If she does that to other guys, then your best bet is to look for other signs besides that one. At some point you'll notice things that she'll do specifically to you and not to the other guys, assuming that she likes you, of course.
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