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Acted aloof and uninterested and now the girl is ignoring me?

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CluelessaboutLove (Age:18 to 24) When: 6 months ago

Category: Flirting

As my name says, I AM CLUELESS about how to flirt, interact etc. with girls.
So this girl I know for almost a year used to like me (physically at least). She would look at my way, trying to catch my eye and everything. But I am an idiot and tried to act cool, aloof and uninterested, in hopes of playing hard to get or whatever... I didn't flirt with her and now we are in some awkward situation... She IGNORES me while passing by, and I am too egoistical to acknowledge the fact, so I ALSO IGNORE her... HELP ME I REALLY LIKE THIS GIRL :(

Update: Some additional details. She is in a sorority, a small one and I made out with one of her sisters... after knowing her (like 9 months ago) They aren't that friends but still. Man its quite complicated lol 6 months ago


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abbeyy

29 days ago

I agree with cazza

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cazza3

6 months ago

I'd ignore you too. If a guy ignores me then I presume he has no interest and move on. If I figure out that he's playing games then I'm turned off and my interest is gone. Just hope she is a little more forgiving than me and try to talk to her but don't be surprised if you've ruined your chance

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- Answerer
  6 months ago
  So be honest with yourself you don't have to answer me but are you genuinely interested or is it the challenge you like?
- Question Asker
  6 months ago
  MAYBE! maybe because she started ignoring me that I noticed... :(
- Answerer
  6 months ago
  Not from the US so don't get the whole thing with soroties. It was 9 months ago and probably long forgotten but again that depends on her personality. I have never gone where a friend or even close aquaintance has gone before as it can get messy. It may not impact on you at all but if you don't start actually acknowledging her you'll never have to worry about it. But is your interest heightened because she's turned the tables on you
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  6 months ago
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t0rontogirl

6 months ago

well. as someone who's shy with the opposite gender myself I feel your pain lol. but, I think all in all, most girls expect the guy to make the first move. yes, it kinda sucks, but that's just how it goes. men are typically the mor edominant ones, girls associate that with interest so if your not making a move she'll assume you aren't interested ! nothing major, just say HEY or WHATSUP. trust me ... if you just say hey a few times and make her feel like you wanna talk she'll come around.

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- Answerer
  6 months ago
  lmao. well, that could actually work in your advantage if you made out with her (given that well, she didn't say anything bad about it) because people are intrigued by others who are wanted or have been wanted by others. as long as you don't come off as a player type. and if they aren't friends then it won't be as big of a deal for her to also possibly hook up with you lol.
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jesshkah

6 months ago

If you really like her that much, get off your high horse and say hi and be the first to initiate. Acting cold and aloof probably hurt her a lot if she really liked you, so that was just stupid on your part, and you need to fix it.

Sorry, that was mean. =/

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- Answerer
  6 months ago
  no, if it happened 9 months ago it doesn't matter anymore.
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  6 months ago
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Ichron

6 months ago

Be a man, sack up, go talk to her. You played it like a fool to begin with, don't play it like a fool now.

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  6 months ago
  They aren't friends, that was months ago, and it was just making out (probably at a party, probably with alcohol). No big deal. Pay no mind to it unless she brings it up, then deal with it at that time. Otherwise, never mention it and don't let it affect your actions.
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  6 months ago
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- Answerer
  6 months ago
  You've known her for a year, but how is your rapport with her? Have you really never talked and only known of her? If so, perhaps a bit slower. If you're mostly friendly, but just don't speak often, you can move a bit faster because there's already a bit of a comfort level built up, even if it's small. You don't want to come on too strong, but you do want to assert that you like her sooner rather tan later.
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  6 months ago
  Should I tell her I like her or should I go slowly? Escalate or just plain go all in?

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