thedude1994

YES I finally talked to her so was that good and etc?
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thedude1994 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 6 months ago
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Ok I'm 18 and it's my last year in high school.As stated up top I am shy to talk to a girl when I like her but have no problem to talk to her when I see her as a friend. There is this cute, single twin in my language class. We both are photographers but I never talked to her about it. We've been in the same language class since last year. I didn't talk to her about photography last year but her sis and her best friend(girl) told me she was a photographer.They also asked me to show her photos when I was with my laptop but I didn't have any grate ones back then so she didn't like them but now I'm good at it.So I know for a fact that we both wanna get in the same college after high school. Also this week I learnt that she didn't qualify for the school photography exposition but I did with quite a lot of photos and great ones to.
I wear a suit to school so I look confident and sexy and I'm also a bit funny.Also last Monday in language class I had to get out for a sec and when I got in some of the boys started laughing and when I sat down they told me I that I looked like James Bond when I entered the room. But now for the thing I noticed. I was on the third row the boys were in front of me in the 2nd row and the twin was in the 1st row (aka 2 rows in front of me). So when they were saying the James Bond thing she was smiling and looking back and it looked like she was waiting to see what I'll answer(shes done that at least 2 times before). Also there is the thing that a guy from my class asked me if I liked her 3 weeks ago. And finally that same day after language class I was right behind her in the store and when she was leaving and I was paying my stuff she looked at me when she was 2 feet next to me.And today I was a bit drunk and I was a bit funny and I winked at one of her friends when she was looking (I was drunk and didn't want to do it). Then some time during the class I noticed her 2 friends and here twin sister looking at me and smiling a bit.
So today something happened finally. Me and a friend were waiting for Spanish class then she and a few of her frs appeared. So after some time she asked me(rofl I was just gonna start it but faith got in the way) what photography classes I was taking and which professors were hosting them. I told her what I knew. Then asked her a few things about her camera and what she liked photographing. She answered me but didn't talk to me that much. She then started to talk to her friends. So the how time I kept eye contact but I'm pretty sure she smiled when we were talking. The thing is after we talked one of her friends with which I talk more was looking at me a lot but she was staying away from their group(it was the same girl I winked at). Before the girl I liked started talking to me I flirted a bit with the girl that was looking at me. So the girl I like asked me about the photo lessons and tomorrow I'm gonna tell her to join them with me.She told me she wanted to join.
So were those good things/signs?
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    5 months ago
    I think those are some good signs that she might like you, but she could just be a really nice and friendly girl. In class, does she look at you a lot? Because looking and staring is a big sign of liking someone. But yeah, ask her about hanging out again, and if she makes an excuse again or something, and you think it seems weird or that she's making it up, then it's possible that she doesn't like you that way but can tell you like her and didn't want to hurt you or something. I would say it seems like she likes you though.

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  • craZy_4_musiC_o0
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    craZy_4_musiC_o0
    5 months ago
    well, imo she likes you alright. maybe not wuite too romantically yet, but she likes your personality at least. I'd just keep doing as you do now, try to chat with her, talk to her, make her laugh and all that and try to keep her attention. you could of course suggest going for a photoshoot somewhere some afternoon and see who makes the better pictures. but so far, you're doing well :) good luck!

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    5 months ago
    she's hard for you.

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    • Question Asker
      5 months ago
      What does that mean
  • Renna
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    Renna
    5 months ago
    the smiles and waving when she sees you are very good signs. it means that she's comfortable around you and when trying to win over a shy person, that's usually the hardest thing to do (im super shy myself) as for sometimes not replying to your online messages, don't worry too much about it. maybe she just didn't feel like chatting that day. talk to her about your interests. if you mention one that she's also interested in, then you can build on that.

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    6 months ago
    A suit? That is a bit much unless it's a private school and everybody dresses formally.

    So you went to school drunk and with a suit on.

    Okay, it's probably better to wear jeans and a t-shirt and not show up to school drunk.

    Everything else is great. Just look at her and smile and be nice, think of her as a friend it that helps you.

    Stop trying so hard.

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    • Question Asker
      6 months ago
      it isn't exactly a suit it's a sports coat, shirt and black trousers so it isn't a formal suit at all
  • Tula1
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    Tula1
    6 months ago
    Yes. This was good. You are getting your nerve up. Just keep it coming. Be honest and upfornt. Take themoment to listen to her cues and ask the questions that come to your mind. I find myself often wondering about something but not asking it.

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  • emijo
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    emijo
    6 months ago
    Well all you can really do is make yourself talk to her. It doesn't have to be awkward if you don't make it that way, just go up to her after or before class and say hey what are you doing this weekend because if you're not busy then I wanted to see if you wanted to get something to eat and look over some photos. Tell her how you qualified for the photo thing and say you want her opinion on them. There's no way she would say no! If you want to start easier than that then just say hey what's up or ask her how her weekend was on Monday, girls love when you listen to what they say or ask them about themselves! Hope that helps!

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  • kambo_trick3y
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    kambo_trick3y
    6 months ago
    You got it in the bag champ.

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  • sisterray
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    sisterray
    6 months ago
    The way I beat shyness is I had my heart broken into a million pieces and now I have the courage to do almost anything. Someday, forbid, it will happen to you.

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  • georgeofthejungle789
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    georgeofthejungle789
    6 months ago
    Just ask her to borrow a pencil in class or something and make sure you're polite but not too polite. Always smell good and brush your teeth.

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    • Question Asker
      6 months ago
      dude asking for a pencil is boring I need to ask her something that will intrigue her which I know but I have no idea how to grow the balls to talk to her
  
   
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