It sucks being single (for me). I haven't had a decent boyfriend. Ever I think:s and I want to know what the best way is to approach someone. I don't wanna be threatening. I tend to be sometimes. Guys, what do I need to do?
First of all, just be yourself. If you come across as trying too hard, or trying to be something you're not, eventually, it's going to show...
Secondly, if you want to meet a boy you like, you've got two options:
1. Play it cool. Hang-out where "your type of boy hangs-out". For instance, if you like athletic boys, hang-out where he plays. If you like boys that are into Tech stuff, well... you get the idea.
2. Play it up-front. Hey, it's 2008. A lady CAN ask a guy on a date, provided she's not too over the top. I mean, don't put this guy on the spot in front of your friends (or more importantly, his friends!) -- but don't hesitate to ask "subtle date questions", such as "would you like to have coffee sometime?"
Coffee is always a "safe" bet for a girl. 1. It's Public, so your not threatened. 2. It's Coffee, it's $5. You're not asking this guy to marry you. 3. I never met a man that didn't like coffee / breakfast food 4. It gives you a chance to talk to your guy. 5. In the morning, he's guaranteed to be sober, lol.
Nuff said? Remember one last thing.... you're in control. You're the lady, and that's what every REAL man wants. How do I know? My wife of 10 years is a GEM, and she's the best lady I know.
My husband and I met because we had a mutual friend who hosted a mini party of seven just for the purpose of getting us to meet. She invited just a few other friends over and the rest is history. It was all her doing. She didn't tell me and she didn't tell him.
Well. I'm not a guy but I can certainly tell you that you aren't the only one out there who hasn't had a decent boyfriend. They all seem to be jerks no matter which way you look at them. Unfortunately for us there's no way around them :( my best advice to you would be to become friends with a guy. That way you can get to know more about each other instead of just jumping into a relationship and having it end on bad terms because of something petty and unexpected. Good luck!
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