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I think it depends on the guy.
For some, girls in skirts or tight jeans are intimidating, because they seem out of their league, and might fit into the stereotype of being dismissive and bitchy. Girls in regular jeans and sweats would probably seem nicer and more approachable, and like the 'girl next door'.
For others, girls wearing skirts or tight jeans might mean they're 'easy', or more laid back and fun, and open to casual flirting. For them, girls in regular jeans and sweats would be more intimidating, since they're used to the girls wearing skirts, and girls in sweats might give off the message that they "just don't give a damn".
So I'm thinking its just what you're used to, and what your personality is more like.
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I know this is an old one but I had to answer
what a load of crap "eye candy" my ass
some girls dress for guys and their attention but most of us dress for ourselves and to feel good and increase our confidence in ourselves not for none of the crap your talking about and I seriously doubt that all guys share your "obviously educated" views and aren't that superficial
the way you rant about your philosophy views make you sound brainwashed not intelligent how would you like it if women only looked at you when you go out of your way to look nice but won't come anywhere near you? Like a piece of meat just like the girls on here said
guys who treat women like that or think of them like that don't deserve any girl no matter how we dress
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I get what you're saying; girls are easier to talk to when the look like they're not trying to impress. Does that mean that a girl would be best to balance between flirty clothes and everyday clothes to get both some attention and some genuine interest?
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I usually get more cat calls and random guys trying to talk to me when I wear clothes that reveal my legs.
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i get what your sayin.. But she's just tryin to look a little prettier, if she's a total bitch..i wouldn't even try talking to her ha but if nottt, jus do your thing :D
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I can see how someone in sweatpants would appear I guess lower maintenance or maybe simpler? But That wouldn't work out for me because I never wear sweatpants...haha.
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If the girl always wears stuff like that you should forget her anyways, but I have to agree anytime I wear a short skirt or something less guys tend to approch me.
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I think girls in tight jeans and really short skirts are trying to much! When girls have regular jeans on its easier to aproach then because you know they are relaxed!
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Dave, girls are human beings regardless of what they wear. We're not "eye candy" for your entertainment. I think we deserve a bit more respect than that.
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This question is kind of confusing and so are the comment threads. Many guys are intimidated by "hot" girls; you're no different. And many guys are more comfortable around girls in sweats and regular clothes. I consider myself very low maintenance on most days. If a guy approached me at first because he thought I'd be "easier," I'd be offended, yes. How would you feel if I approached you because I thought I didn't have a chance with a hotter guy? Basically, I'm "settling," and no one likes that feeling. It makes us feel like shit. What I hate is when guys see me after I "glam" up; suddenly they take more notice and they act stupid. People can be very fickle and shallow.
Approach women who you think you'll have a real connection with. Many guys don't understand that most girls can have the ability to look "hot" if they choose to. Many of us don't choose to on a daily basis; we want guys to like us for us.
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It's just eye candy, yeh guys like you really piss me off-you see some girls as just pieces of meat-it's disgusting.
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I don't think it should matter. She is the same girl whether she has on tight jeans or sweatpants. Most girls own each of everything you just mentioned. She's not going to be wearing sweats everyday but what if she just wanted to look nice?
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I think it's easier to approach women in tight pants and skirts. Girls whether they admit it or not were "sexy" clothes to get noticed. They may be more intimidating, but they're more in the mood to play the flirting game. I understand that women dressed this way may be more intimidating, but you just have to be confident. Approach a "hot" girl the same way you would hit on a girl in her everyday clothes. It's all about showing your confidence.
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idk, honestly it depends, I'm more interested in a woman's personality and face first, after that I might take a better look at what they are wearing and their body, I don't feel like it's just eye candy though, if I amm going to approach a woman it's going to be I either get a vibe from her, or feel like she might be interesting to talk to, I don't base my decision to go up to a woman on if she's wearing tight or skimpy clothes, unless it's really tight or really skimpy then I'm going to probably think she's trashy and not worth trying to try talking to. Maybe that's just me, I don't know hope this answers your question.
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I feel the same way as you do, it's eyecandy, and they're likely starving for attention. And wearing such things as that, it will take very little effort to get attention.
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No. You know me... hahaha
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Actually, it's the opposite. The girls that go over the top with their clothing, as in too reaveling or "sexy" are the girls I don't get nervous at all with, because I can tell right away that I'm not interested in them. To look nice is one thing, and that can get me nervous, yes, but there is indeed a fine line between looking nice and dressing to have guys googly eyes ontop of you like magnets.
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Clothes don't really change anything. If I wanted to approach a girl I liked, her clothes would not affect my choice to approach her.
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