metaldave20

Though I may like girls in skirts and or tight jeans?

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metaldave20 (Age:18 to 24)     When: Over a year ago
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i never could approach one, I think its just eye candy. its easier to approach women in regular jeans or sweats/shorts

i dk

Do you GUYS think the same

girls, what do you think about this


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  • vc329
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    Over a year ago
    I think it depends on the guy.

    For some, girls in skirts or tight jeans are intimidating, because they seem out of their league, and might fit into the stereotype of being dismissive and bitchy.
    Girls in regular jeans and sweats would probably seem nicer and more approachable, and like the 'girl next door'.

    For others, girls wearing skirts or tight jeans might mean they're 'easy', or more laid back and fun, and open to casual flirting. For them, girls in regular jeans and sweats would be more intimidating, since they're used to the girls wearing skirts, and girls in sweats might give off the message that they "just don't give a damn".

    So I'm thinking its just what you're used to, and what your personality is more like.
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    Over a year ago
    I know this is an old one but I had to answer

    what a load of crap
    "eye candy" my ass

    some girls dress for guys and their attention but most of us dress for ourselves and to feel good and increase our confidence in ourselves not for none of the crap your talking about
    and I seriously doubt that all guys share your "obviously educated" views and aren't that superficial

    the way you rant about your philosophy views make you sound brainwashed not intelligent
    how would you like it if women only looked at you when you go out of your way to look nice but won't come anywhere near you? Like a piece of meat just like the girls on here said

    guys who treat women like that or think of them like that don't deserve any girl no matter how we dress
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  • madi1310
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    Over a year ago
    I get what you're saying; girls are easier to talk to when the look like they're not trying to impress. Does that mean that a girl would be best to balance between flirty clothes and everyday clothes to get both some attention and some genuine interest?
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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Yeah, but there's no healthy medium... ya know?, even if you tried to...it still look like you're trying to dress just to impress....girls are always telling me they dress nice because they like to feel good, right? so if you're saying youd do it to impress, then even then it still looks like you're trying too hard...i saw a girl yesterday in a cute top, and a pair of nice jeans...ida talked to her but I was sick anyway, so yeah
  • sweet17
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    Over a year ago
    I usually get more cat calls and random guys trying to talk to me when I wear clothes that reveal my legs.
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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Exactly
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Partly
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Oh I know, and I'm saying, that's y ya do it...for the attention
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      I'm sayin that guys aren't afraid to give me attention when I dress like that.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Of course, you're trying to show off your legs, you're gonna get male attention
  • This-Girl-15
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    Over a year ago
    i get what your sayin..
    But she's just tryin to look a little prettier, if she's a total
    bitch..i wouldn't even try talking to her ha but if nottt,
    jus do your thing :D
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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Thanks, ill need it
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Ha, mk good luck
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Im sure wanting to be prettier that day is y you really do it, like you said, but to guys its attractive yet intimidating, hard to explain y, it just is

      but yeah, I think I will just go ahead and do my thing
  • bbmmc
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    Over a year ago
    I can see how someone in sweatpants would appear I guess lower maintenance or maybe simpler? But That wouldn't work out for me because I never wear sweatpants...haha.
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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Yeah if we get it in the end, but if you're challenging us to the point where ur just leading us on, we're gonna stop going after you

      but still, the phrase is, "challenge yourself" not others... for example if you think ur not getting approached because of how you dress, try a different style, ya know?
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      That's not what I meant. I just always hear that guys love challenges. And I thought if it was a challenge for a guy to approach a girl, he would plow through it or find some way to overcome it.

    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Challenge yourself, NOT others
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Do it, haha, coffee is casual. I thought guys liked challenges!
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Thats even more intimidating, for example this new girl I sort of met, is not only attractive, but she's in college, the one I go to, which means she's pretty smart... I'm trying to get the nerve to ask her to coffee or something
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      What if a girl was smart AND pretty?? Lool
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Haha, it can be, but id rather talk to a smart girl, then a pretty girl
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Well I would hope so, theyre super comfy when its cold...the sacrifices I make to be a beautiful woman! lol.
      Just wondering, are you also intimidated by really smart girls? Or girls with really nice, shampoo-commercial hair?
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Ohhh, haha, well I'm sure the guys are happy about that
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      I don't like to be overly hot which always happens with sweatpants...plus I think they're just plain unflattering on me, hehe.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Y not?
  • jennabaybe
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    Over a year ago
    If the girl always wears stuff like that you should forget her anyways, but I have to agree anytime I wear a short skirt or something less guys tend to approch me.
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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      At least someone sees my point, its INTIMIDATING
  • star1012636
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    Over a year ago
    I think girls in tight jeans and really short skirts are trying to much!
    When girls have regular jeans on its easier to aproach then because you know they are relaxed!
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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Omg, totally, but I still think it looks hotter when they are, just harder to approach
  • Cool-Relax
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    Over a year ago
    Dave, girls are human beings regardless of what they wear. We're not "eye candy" for your entertainment. I think we deserve a bit more respect than that.
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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Yes she is a tight jean wearing girl, and we met once in person that's it, she called I missed it, she never called again, she judged me on missed call
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Hmm how did she dress Dave? Normal jeans and sweats?
      My tight jeans and I wouldn't judge you by a missed call. We would appreciate the same in return. That's all I'm saying.
    • Over a year ago
      Lol, cause a missed call can sum up who you are easily, right? ;) jk but idk, sure I can look at a girl and say "she's good looking" not going to call her eye candy, but I am hoping I got what you were meaning, but I don't know I kind of get where you are both coming from, I think you two might just be having a miscommunication, I don't know maybe I'm wrong.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Ok, thanks forgettable for backing me up

      and cool, I didn't say all girls do it to be "eye candy" I'm just saying, the ones who usually do, do it for the guys attention, its just what I have noticed

      and yes, get to know the real me before you start judging, this girl I met, judged me on a missed phone call, I'm like umm ok, w/e then
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      I know not all guys are like that. I'm just saying that Dave doesn't make a very good argument in guys' favor (no offense, Dave). So many girls think guys are shallow and only care about appearance, and referring to girls as "eye candy" doesn't do anything to deny that.

      Dave, you told me yesterday that I have to get to know the real you before I can judge you. Well, the same goes for those girls. I like wearing both tight jeans and sweats--I'm the same person either way.
    • Over a year ago
      Hey, Cool-Relax, that's not exactly fair to say all guys are horrible and such, not all of us have just one thing on our minds even if I joke about things like that a lot doesn't mean that is just how I am. And I think what he means is women in tight clothes like that just really appeals to him visually, even though I admit it sounds very objectifiying. And in all fairness I and many other guys feel like there are plenty of females that wear and do things just for the attention.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Thank you, I appreciate that, and I know, you don't have to agree, but I still think ull get a lot out of the class, and if you need help with anything in the class, you know where to find me
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Don't think I forgot about the eye candy thing, I still don't agree with you on that.

      I'm registering for classes next week, and my psych classes don't count toward my required social sciences because they're for my minor. So, just for you Dave, I'll take PL101.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Http://www.new-science-theory.com/rene-descartes.html

      finally were getting into something we can really talk about, at least me and you can
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      I've been told my way of thinking is like Descartes. Unfortunately, I've never taken the classes to know what that means haha
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Haha, yeah I have fav. theorists too, called aristotle, and des carte

      2 philosophers, not psychologists
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Psychology is the study of the mind and behavior. It's more like why people think the way they do than the actual thoughts people have.

      Have you ever heard of Walter Mischel or Albert Bandura? They're my favorite theorists (I know, it's really geeky to have favorite theorists). You should read up on them.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Thoughts that are eventually put into questionable theories, isn't psych. like that?

      ya know, I don't know, I should look it up, ill get back to ya on that

      i hate having questions left unanswered
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      No it's not. Psychology is based on research, philosophy is basically based on thoughts.

      Does that "eye candy" theory have a name?
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Philosophy is like psych. you should take it, its very similar, no id like to though
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Well then guys are just as horrible as women think they are, and I'm sorry I ever thought otherwise.

      I'm a psychology minor, philosophy doesn't interest me. There's no proof behind it.
      Have you taken a psychology class yet?
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Cool, again that's from a girls point of view in your reality

      in a guys point of view and reality, its eye candy

      have you taken a philosophy class yet?
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    Over a year ago
    This question is kind of confusing and so are the comment threads. Many guys are intimidated by "hot" girls; you're no different. And many guys are more comfortable around girls in sweats and regular clothes. I consider myself very low maintenance on most days. If a guy approached me at first because he thought I'd be "easier," I'd be offended, yes. How would you feel if I approached you because I thought I didn't have a chance with a hotter guy? Basically, I'm "settling," and no one likes that feeling. It makes us feel like shit. What I hate is when guys see me after I "glam" up; suddenly they take more notice and they act stupid. People can be very fickle and shallow.

    Approach women who you think you'll have a real connection with. Many guys don't understand that most girls can have the ability to look "hot" if they choose to. Many of us don't choose to on a daily basis; we want guys to like us for us.
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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Dont let the clothes describe your personality, be yourself, just in "hotter" clothes, I know I'm being hypocritical here, since I would have a hard time approaching that anyway, but yeah, clothes don't define your personality, just because I'm a metalhead, doesn't mean I dress in black all the time, if I dressed in black all the time, it'd be for the slimming effect that black has, not because its a stereotype
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      So you get "hornier" if you see a girl that normally dresses low maintenance in "hot gear"? I've never understood that. Basically, I don't like how guys don't take notice until we "bring out the goods." You go for the "hot girl," then you complain about her, and then you see us all dolled up or whatever, and then you regret your choice. Really.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Hmm, interesting

      umm I think the reason we act stupid as you say once you glam metal it up haha, umm, is because you are seen as the one who never "dolls up" everyday, compared to some other girls who do it constantly (most likely for the attention, but I dk) so when they do see it, it makes them hornier haha, and when we got hornier, what do we do, that's right...stupider
  • xxangel1990xx
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    Over a year ago
    It's just eye candy, yeh guys like you really piss me off-you see some girls as just pieces of meat-it's disgusting.
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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Haha, I would imagine
    • Over a year ago
      Especially by your form angel ;P.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Exactly
    • Over a year ago
      You don't have to wear baggy clothes but just know that straight guys are attracted to the female form. So if you're showing it off they're not gonna gouge their eyes out, there going to look. That's not disrespectful, I would be mad if a guy didn't check me out. Take it as a compliment
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      I can tell
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      W/e, that's the biggest load of BS, girls have to wear baggy clothes now haha, I'm bored of this now...
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Exactly, women will be seen as a piece of meat if they ask for it, don't ask, don't recieve

      but back to my original point, I just have a hard time doing it, I wish I didn't though
    • Over a year ago
      If a girl wears a mini skirt she shouldn't be complaining about guys looking at her. If you don't want to be looked at by guys wear sweatpants and baggy clothes. Guys are gonna look, they can't help it and they are programmed to. They don't all see us as a piece of meat just because they check us out.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Because everything is based on your own reality, to guys its eye candy, to girls its to help them feel good (apparently is what I'm told)
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Oh yeh and that's the 2nd time I've been told (by you) to take a philosophy class, why?
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Some girls do, not all
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Wtf?! it makes us feel good to be though of as nothing but pieces of meat, you have got to be kidding! That's another thing that pisses me off-guys thinking they're doing us a favour, thinking all girls love being stared at all the time.
    • Over a year ago
      Very disgusting haha.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      In our reality, its eye candy, to you its to make you feel good

      sorry bad comma use
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Take a philosophy class, in our reality, its eye candy to you, its to make you feel good
  • ALWAYSclassy
    -1  
    Over a year ago
    I don't think it should matter. She is the same girl whether she has on tight jeans or sweatpants. Most girls own each of everything you just mentioned. She's not going to be wearing sweats everyday but what if she just wanted to look nice?
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    • Over a year ago
      Well it's just easier to notice the bod with tighter clothes. haha
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Exactly, thanks for understanding
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Because I would just feel "average". Like a guy is thinking she looks good enough for me to talk to but she's not that hot so I have no competition I can get her easily. What girl would want to feel like that? lol
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Y?
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      OK I understand what you're saying. Coming from a girl's point of view (OK maybe I'm just speaking for myself) I would be kind of offended if a guy thought he didn't have to work very hard to get with me.
    • Over a year ago
      Yeh I agree with this answer.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Because, its hard to explain, haha, umm, maybe cause its the fact that, you have to work for the things that "look" good. if the things you wanted were handed to you on a silver platter, would you take it ( I know, don't say yes, I'm making a point here) its just that if you want to be with her/him, then he/shes gonna have to work to get you and by showing that you're looking good or "intimidating" then he/she knows theyre gonna have to work harder to get you
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      But what if one day she wears sweatpants and the next day she wears a miniskirt. I don't understand it...I know guys don't want a girl to look bad so why is it intimidating if they look good?
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      And I understand now that girls do it, because they want to feel good on the outside, which makes them feel good on the inside

      but that's in your reality

      in a guys reality, its eye candy, etc...,

      i dk, I just think, its difficult, because things that look good, can be intimidating
 

What Guys Said

  • hporter1
    438  
    Over a year ago
    I think it's easier to approach women in tight pants and skirts. Girls whether they admit it or not were "sexy" clothes to get noticed. They may be more intimidating, but they're more in the mood to play the flirting game. I understand that women dressed this way may be more intimidating, but you just have to be confident. Approach a "hot" girl the same way you would hit on a girl in her everyday clothes. It's all about showing your confidence.
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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      This may be the best answer

      and yeah, its all about confidence, I know, its difficult to get a lot of confidence though
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    Over a year ago
    idk, honestly it depends, I'm more interested in a woman's personality and face first, after that I might take a better look at what they are wearing and their body, I don't feel like it's just eye candy though, if I amm going to approach a woman it's going to be I either get a vibe from her, or feel like she might be interesting to talk to, I don't base my decision to go up to a woman on if she's wearing tight or skimpy clothes, unless it's really tight or really skimpy then I'm going to probably think she's trashy and not worth trying to try talking to. Maybe that's just me, I don't know hope this answers your question.
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    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Hmm, well mind if I ask how that is intimidating? I mean I think I know what you mean, but want to make sure, before I just say "o yea I know what you mean" not trying to start a fight or anything, but here's where I am currently seeing this, you have a somewhat degrading view of females that dress like that (not saying some aren't just doing it for attention and what not) but at the same time are asking if others feel intimidating by the girls that dress that way...
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      All I'm saying, is that its difficult to go up to them, because its intimidating, that's my main point
  • stevo
    -1  
    Over a year ago
    I feel the same way as you do, it's eyecandy, and they're likely starving for attention. And wearing such things as that, it will take very little effort to get attention.
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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Dont you hate that, when a girl flirts with you, even when she has a bf, I should know it just happened at my work the other day
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Too much, too soon, too fast. She had a boyfriend who was and still is a dick.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Haha, too much, isn't it?
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      I had a girl that I was friends with, and like, stick her butt around a foot away from my face when we were in YG together. I was leaned up against the wall, and she was practicing singing music for xmas for the church. Her jeans weren't really that tight, but they showed off-alot. I'm not a pig, and I didn't mind, but I got up and left.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      For example, a girl whos actually friends with a girl I almost dated, was walking down the hall in a very short skirt, man it looked good, yet I couldn't say anything, I wanted to but couldnt
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Know what ya mean.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Because, its intimidating, always is
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      But why wouldn't you approach one, Dave? I know I wouldn't because they're dressed for 'success'. And more likely than not, TROUBLE!
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Haha, yeah
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      I forgot to mention the 'wrong' kind of attention.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Exactly!!!!!
  • St-Dank-Tanks-LG
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    Over a year ago
    No. You know me... hahaha
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  • Dragonblood21
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    Over a year ago
    Actually, it's the opposite. The girls that go over the top with their clothing, as in too reaveling or "sexy" are the girls I don't get nervous at all with, because I can tell right away that I'm not interested in them. To look nice is one thing, and that can get me nervous, yes, but there is indeed a fine line between looking nice and dressing to have guys googly eyes ontop of you like magnets.
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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      I just think that casual wear is casual wear and nicer dressing is for dates etc..., I dk that's just me
  • FrozenDonkeyWheel
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    Over a year ago
    Clothes don't really change anything. If I wanted to approach a girl I liked, her clothes would not affect my choice to approach her.
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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Nah, just hard to explain
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      You are confusing.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Nvm
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      I don't understand what you're trying to say.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      I dk, like I said, its jsut difficult...at least for me it is
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      "Come on"?
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Right!, I mean it obviously should not, but, I mean come on
  • bunny420
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    Over a year ago
    I could approach one, I don't know why you wouldn't...
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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Again, its in a guy reality, where its eye candy, girls don't see it that way, they see it as "oh ill wear this to make me feel good" (at least that's what I'm told is y you wear them) but do call guys mean for giving you attention, a little harsh, eh?
    • Over a year ago
      Lol haha. and they way you told us that we are 'eye candy' is mean. Like some girls like the attension but other just wear clothes and don't care. I would that that if a girl was wearing sweatpants it would show she didn't care:which is bad. It just depneds on the guy and ovbiously Bunny420 doesn't have a problem ; )

      Idk..just my opinion...
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      That doesn't even make sense
    • Over a year ago
      Because he only sees them as pieces of meat...
 
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