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How to catch a girl's attention.

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greg24 (Age:18 to 24)     When: Over a year ago
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Well, I am not popular in my school, but neither she is. Is there anything I can do to catch her attention? Like new clothes, new shoes or anything?


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  • katiebaby17
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    Over a year ago
    You don't have to change you clothes or anything like that, just if you're really nervous to talk to her, ask her to borrow a pen or pencil and start a conversation with that. And you could compliment her on how she looks one day and tell her she looks really pretty, TRUST ME YOU CAN'T GO WRONG WITH THAT!

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  • magicgirl
    1061  
    Over a year ago
    The best way to attract a girl's attention is by your behavior. pay attention to her, I mean extra attention.make meaningful eye contacts.Try to be around her more. Talk to her, say hi and smile

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  • desotogirl
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    Over a year ago
    Don't change your look at all unless it is under her influence. My one major tip is to strike up a conversation with her. Find out what she likes, hates, etc. Just smile at her every once in a while (but not in a creepy way) and say hi to her in the hall. She's probably more likely to notice the sweet guy who isn't pushing the attraction. That's the other thing. DON'T PUSH IT! You've still got time to get to know her. Just be the guy who she can actually talk to without being pressured about dating, and she'll be more likely to say yes if you do ask her.

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  • Reeses-pieces777
    34014  
    Over a year ago
    just talk to her, hang out with her more. be friendly, the usual stuff. you could try a new outfit. I sometimes do , but then I just like shopping in general. just do what you're kewl with. a new hat, shirt, w/e if you want. just be you

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  • aceofdiamond
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    Over a year ago
    no. what ever you do, don't change your look. that may make her think your showing off. just be nice and show her you care about her.

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  • ttlynotobsessed
    159  
    Over a year ago
    I'm not popluar in school, so a guy always catches my attention when he's super nice to me. When he's not afraid to be a little crazy around me. When I'm cold he gives me his sweatshirt. And he gives me new songs to listen to. You don't have to change your aperance for a girl. But you can never go wrong with nice shoes.

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    Over a year ago
    its not about the clothes.just talk to her show her that you like talking to her.make her laugh.it doesn't matter if you are popular or not.seems like you need some self confidence.even if you aren't popular you could be a great loving person show her that.

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  • allola
    1862  
    Over a year ago
    If I don't talk to you on a regular basis, if you're not even an acquaintance, I'm not going to notice any changes you make appearance-wise.

    If you don't know this girl very well, start a conversation with her. You can just say hi, or you can comment on a book she's reading or something. Find common ground to start a successful conversation.
    Another great way to catch her attention if you don't know her is to compliment her. Not on anything inappropriate, mind you. If she's wearing a nice shirt, tell her that. Note that you may want to avoid that comment if her top is pretty low cut.

    If you do know her, then you can catch her attention with an outrageous change in appearance. This may not always get a positive reaction, though. Clothes may be a bit subtle, unless you go from wearing all black to wearing... I don't know, bright pink.

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  • jen-82
    768  
    Over a year ago
    I was never really what you would consider popular either. For me it wasn't the material things about guys that caught my eye. It was the cute little things he did. I absolutely love it when a guy smiles at me every single time I see him. Not just a hey what's up, but a cute smile always caught my eye. Funny little jokes or comments caught my attention too. I always fall for the nice guys, so do nice little things, even if it's like holding the door open for her (but then again some girls hate that ... so you might have to take your chances there) or other nice things. These little things show that you have a great personality and that you are a nice. I'm not saying every girl looks for this because of course there are girls out there who want the best dressed muscular model like guy hahhaa. But for me and I'm sure many other girls it's the personality that counts most. [= Good Luck!

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    Anonymous User
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    Over a year ago
    Lock eyes with her while you are walking down the hall. You can start a conversation with her too, that probably the best way to get noticed.

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    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Just give her a little smile while in the hall or during class.
    • Over a year ago
      Okay what if they're both shy? This kid is in High school maybe in middle school, he's got a while to go before doing these things.
 

What Guys Said

  • Rebel28
    142  
    Over a year ago
    The best thing you can do is to smile at her

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  • bballkid1324
    98  
    Over a year ago
    just be yourself and here's a nice tip... flirt with all the girls but not too much, once you begin to like one flirt a bit more with her than other girls...and no its not a player move, just a way to find the right girl for a decent guy...worked for me.

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  • fleeble
    767  
    Over a year ago
    Surprise buttsecks her.

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  • chunkylover69
    5  
    Over a year ago
    Try saying "Hi." That'll get her attention. What do you say after that? Anything that's not creepy. Don't be a chicken.

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  • Paullus
    3473  
    Over a year ago
    yes. Try these shirts they're dope never failed me.

    link

    Also go to the gym at least 5 times a week.

    Research abs exercises you can do. like you tube -abs exercises-

    groom yourself nicely. girls in general don't like too much facial hair.

    get some Oxyclean. and use on yourself whenever needed(to keep skin clear)

    Also get showers right after working out. (essential)

    get into sports at school, that's usually the best way to meet new friends.

    Socialize, have fun, make yourself attractable to other women.

    Try picking up a guitar, chicks love it.

    All these things you can do to catch a girls attention. There are hundreds more, but you must be disciplined and determined on your goals. Don't give up and remember to always keep a positive outlook.

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    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      HAHAHAHA made my day
    • Over a year ago
      Http://www.explosm.net/db/files/Comics/Matt/holding-a-guitar-is-like-turning-an-on-off-switch-for-getting-laid.png
    • Over a year ago
      Hahah! Girls really do love guys who can play an instrument - I play the guitar and piano, so I tend to like people who at least share the same passion for music as I do.
    • Over a year ago
      Yeah those shirts are awesome! And I do love guys that play guitar.
  • liamkarl
    611  
    Over a year ago
    perhaps start a convo with her?
    shoes and clothes won't mean nothing tbh =L

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    • Over a year ago
      I would say well it doesn't matter if you change your physical appearence if she doesn't know who you are. so you shoud start by making eye-contact with her and then approach her and well changing your appereance is for you not for her to boost your confidence and if she notices you before your change then definitely a keeper. Do as you please just be comfortable if you change don't get into peer pressure,or act like some1 you aren't after.
    • Over a year ago
      Only if they're good friends. If they don't know each other she may think he's stalker or something, get what I mean.
 
   
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